Then why go for a high-end "name" with high upkeep costs? If you're not interested in having a status symbol, save yourself the money! Lots of very reliable crossovers out there that aren't so expensive.
I am also "not into" cars. I also wonder why you've limited yourself (so far) to the "high end" options.
I have a 2007 Honda CRV and I've been very happy with it. It has been very reliable. (knock wood) So far, I haven't had to put anything into it besides routine maintenance. It runs on non-premium gas and gets good gas mileage (about 23 in the city and 28+ on the highway). Mine doesn't have a nav system, but it's available as an option.
I haven't limited myself to the "high end" options. That is why I asked for other ideas. The two Acura's are on there because we have a RL and a TL, so naturally, the MDX and RDX are at the top of the list.
As I mentioned before, the Mercedes GLK was on there as one of my friends that I trust has been driving Mercedes for as long as I have known her and has been suggesting it for quite a some time. FWIW, the GLK is the "poor man's" Mercedes, less than what we paid for our Expedition long ago. It is based on the C Class. If I wanted to be a true brand snob, I would be asking about the ML450. Quite a few ML's and GL's driving around the neighborhood, so obviously popular around here, so wanted to ask about them. But the Mercedes is moving farther and farther down as I hear more and more negatives about it.
The Lexus RX seems to be the car of choice around here. Go into our school parking lot and every 3rd Mom car is the Lexus RX. Just for fun, I counted them the other day. There were 14 in a relatively small parking lot. I haven't even bothered looking into it yet, but did want to ask because I am curious why it is so popular. I haven't looked into it much just because
everybody has one and I am not one to follow the crowd.
So, not trying to be a total brand snob, the cars on my list were just the ones that I have looked at due to recommendations or familiarity. If I was set on those, I wouldn't be so wishy washy.

: That said, I do like the perks of the higher end cars. If I can get them in a not "snob" brand, that would be great.
Thank you all for the great suggestions for others to look into. The Acadia seems popular. Being a long time Ford family (before the Acuras), the Lincoln MDX also has merit.
Looks like I have a lot more work/research to do. Although, I am glad to hear all the good reviews on the Acura's, since that is what I am familiar with and probably leaning towards.