Ok dis friends - need some reassurance. Here is the story I am 45 years old, soon to be 46 and found out yesterday I am 17 weeks pregnant with child #2.
Thought I was going through menopause, have a history of infertility and PCOS, needed fertility treatments to have my son and was 40 then. Never imagined this could happen. Husband and I are in shock. Had no symptoms, except lack of period, which is a pretty regular thing to me. Went to doc to see what was going on and wham!
We are excited about the idea but terrified, no prenatal care until now and while I don't drink or smoke just my age makes pregnancy an issue. Feel guilty and stupid I had no clue.
The thought of late night feedings and diapers makes me want to cry. I though we were done with all this. I know what a miracle it is and obviously meant to be, but I am scared. I will be 68 when this child graduates college, trying to make peace with the idea.
I know I will adjust to all those things, but am still getting used to the idea.
Any encouraging thoughts or words?
So much for our November trip, we will have a 3 1/2 month old. Did I also mention that we have tossed all baby stuff and have to start over again.
Thought I was going through menopause, have a history of infertility and PCOS, needed fertility treatments to have my son and was 40 then. Never imagined this could happen. Husband and I are in shock. Had no symptoms, except lack of period, which is a pretty regular thing to me. Went to doc to see what was going on and wham!
We are excited about the idea but terrified, no prenatal care until now and while I don't drink or smoke just my age makes pregnancy an issue. Feel guilty and stupid I had no clue.
The thought of late night feedings and diapers makes me want to cry. I though we were done with all this. I know what a miracle it is and obviously meant to be, but I am scared. I will be 68 when this child graduates college, trying to make peace with the idea.
I know I will adjust to all those things, but am still getting used to the idea.
Any encouraging thoughts or words?
So much for our November trip, we will have a 3 1/2 month old. Did I also mention that we have tossed all baby stuff and have to start over again.