Sungela's PJ & TR Merged! Finally an Update! Faux Disneymoon Time

I've decided my posts are a little long, so I'm splitting up today's notes. Now that the invitation crisis is managed, we can move on to the next dilemma: bridesmen's suits. We had picked out a beautiful suit at Men's Wearhouse, and we were scheduled to have most of our guys go in on April 19 for the fittings. BUT when I called MW yesterday to see if they had measurements on file for one of our gents, they informed me that the suit we picked is now $100 more expensive, and they haven't kept any of the info we've given them. :eek: We figured that buying suits would be a good way to go, as four of our boys have professional jobs that require suits every day. And for a morning wedding, tuxes are optional/inadvisable.

Now, though, we're thinking about renting tuxes from Carolyn Allen's. They have to come to Disney to steam our dresses anyway, and their rates are very reasonable. $350 for a suit might be okay for our two Wall Street people of honor, but for Angela's dad (now retired) and my parents (who have to buy a suit for my dad and my little brother), that's a lot. $150 to rent a really nice tux, including shoes and cufflinks? Much nicer. Plus, Carolyn Allen's has been very helpful and responsive; MW, not so much. You'd think the salesperson would call to tell us that the suits were going up in price lest he lose the commission generated from 6 suit purchases... Anyway, what do you think of this one?
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We're debating between the Mickey vest and something more plain. Their bouts will be green, but the girls are all wearing turquoise. I think the turquoise vests are a little much, though. We've already ordered bright orange yarmulkes too:
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FMIL's suggestion was that we have everyone wear a main color with an orange accent, so for the girls it will be blue with orange, and for the guys, green with orange. But does that mean a plain-colored vest and a green tie? A bright green vest? The Mickey vest with a tie? HELP!
 
Quick budgeting update: inspired by Carrie's minimum expenditure regimen, I decided to calculate my total without service and taxes. And I am happy to report, for 75 people, I am only $1071 over my minimum! :banana: If we got rid of Angela's string trio ($1365), we'd actually be under our minimum. Of course, tax and tip add up to a whopping $2547.78, and we still have to pay for photography separately. But even with Disney videography, the Wedding Pavilion and Grand Floridian in high season, and a DJ, we're doing really well budget-wise. :dance3:

Right on, sister! :thumbsup2 :rotfl:
 
We're treading the fine line between incorporating our favorite assortment of bright colors, and throwing an upscale gay pride parade.

OMG...Hilarious! :lmao: You are tooo funny!

Loving your PJ, and still reading through it, but had to stop and catch my breath!! Snort, gasp, chuckle!!!

Congratulations, and can't wait to hear about the wedding!!!
 

Who's head? ;)

I can totally understand--I'm not exactly footing the bill, but I think I'm more budget-obsessed than my mother, who is paying for it.

Sorry I haven't posted in a very long time, but this week was a little crazy. We had 10 people (family and some of the bridal party) over to celebrate Passover and the fact that DF is now officially Jewish! :yay:

My FMIL got along better with my parents than I could ever have expected (she's met them before, but they really bonded on this trip). Unfortunately, FFIL couldn't come (too busy fishing), but I think his absence enabled MIL to get a chance to relax more than she would have otherwise. And everyone was really excited about Disney and the wedding, which is making it feel more real. Scary, actually, that today is our 2 month mark... :eek:

Since I last posted, we have: received several RSVPs, a few more nos than we expected, but we're still waiting on a number of them. My mom wants to throw us a small reception in CT after the wedding, and I have a feeling that many of my northeastern relatives will come to that instead. As long as we get the gifts. :rotfl2:

I also went for my first dress fitting! I enjoyed it, and of course I had an entourage: my MOH, Eileen, her mom (she was visiting from Cali for the weekend), and my mom. I'm not known as a style expert (ok, if they had worst dressed as a superlative in the yearbook, I probably would have won it), whereas Eileen is the very essence of chic. So she thought that my dress was going to be bright gold and costumey. But I proved her wrong! She actually loved it. I'm pretty sure my mom barely noticed the details of the gown, because she was so busy gasping that her very tomboyish daughter had picked out such a princess outfit. She was quite pleased as well. I don't have pics yet, because Eileen took them all on her camera, but I will either post them when I get them or wait for my second fitting on May 17 (luckily, my parents will again be in town for my graduation). Only one slight mishap: they didn't have my bra size for the long, fancy wedding undergarments (34DD), so they have to special order it for next time. I have to admit that I was terrified that something would go wrong and I would end up walking down the aisle in jeans, but now I feel much more confident.

And we picked out the vests. Carolyn Allen's recommended we go with peach, so that's what we're going to do. I'm not sure about cufflinks; the Mickey ones are cute, but a little expensive. I liked the ones used by JJClemson, but how often are they going to wear Mickey shaped cufflinks? Whatev. As long as the boys are clothed, I am relatively unconcerned.

Up next: RSVP deadline (we'll see if anyone observes it) on May 1, wedding shower (BBQ at our place) on May 3, second dress fitting on May 17, major freak-out we have one month left session on May 22, and bachelorette party (NYC hotel) on June 6. OY VEY!!!
 
I know you're busy the next few weeks with lots of fun but I saw a post of yours on another thread and realized I hadn't read anything from you in a while.
 
Thanks for asking! Sometimes, I really want to scrap most of my family and friends, and replace them with disboard people. :disrocks: I'm sure you would all respond, as opposed to my lousy invitees...

Where are we in the process? We still have to:
- Make the guest book (I'm going with Blurb, but I want to wait until I get pics from our shower this Saturday).
- Get the ketubah (Jewish wedding certificate, usually pretty fancy, in the $200-400 range). I'm also (shhh!) buying one for my parents as their "thank you for giving me the best wedding ever" because they lost their original one. Sometimes I am so glad that my parents are not technologically savvy and they thus can't look on here.
- Get Angela's dress fitted. We're kind of lost on this one because we don't know what she should wear under the dress. A slip? Where do you buy slips these days?
- Make ADRs for our faux Disneymoon. So far, we have V&A's and Dining with an Imagineer, but I want to make sure that I get free dessert for every meal. I'm getting so toned for the wedding, but as soon as June 23 rolls around, it's back to cake for breakfast, lunch and dinner. And snacks. :rotfl2:
- Pick our music. We've decided on the fathers/daughters song (Somewhere over the rainbow), our first dance song (Shrek theme), our cake-cutting song (Your love is better than chocolate), and my special dance with my brother songs (Rainbow Connection and If I Could Turn Back Time--don't ask; we're playing it during our "Everyone's trashed--time for bad music" 2-3 hour) but we haven't decided much about the ceremony music. We want to use yet another Shrek song, True Love's First Kiss (at the end of 1 and 2, the song played when they go back to being ogres), but I've only found piano music for it. We'll have to find out if we can translate that to string/flute music.
- Programs and welcome letters. I'm a competitive crossword-puzzler, so I really want to create a NY Times standard-issue puzzle for our welcome packet. So what if only I can solve it?

The best thing is that I stop working tomorrow! I originally planned to give myself a little summer vacation before I start my real, post-college job on July 28, but then I started panicking about not working. Luckily, my old boss emailed and asked if I wanted to do free-lance work this summer (I'm a grantwriter). I will be gainfully employed, but able to do all my work whilst I laze poolside. :banana: Come next week, I'll have plenty of time to wrap up last-minute wedding details, harass non-RSVPing guests, and post on here.
 
The wedding dress pics are in! This was only my first fitting, so I figure it will look even better the second time around. Not that I'm complaining--I LOVE my dress, not least of all because it's so soft and light and doesn't require me to spend my whole wedding day sucking in my stomach. :love:

Dress unbustled:
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Dress bustled (which I think looks weird):
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My back:
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Bottom of dress (look at all those pick-ups!):
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We also had our bridal shower this weekend. Our bridespeople did a lovely job, although I think it ended up being less shower and more regular party. Might have been the ten bottles of wine consumed... and the fact that all our friends are 21-23 years old, and we're the first to get married. I am terribly unphotogenic (thank God for professional photographers), but here are a few shots:
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And yes, of course, we did coordinate our shirts. We also gave out little orange goodie bags, so that all of our wedding colors would be represented.
 
It looks like they're doing a French bustle on your (lurvly!) gown, and I'm not crazy about it either.

Check out this site - they invented something called the "Tufted Bustle" especially for a gown with pickups, and it looks fabulous. However, if your seamstress is charging the standard $10 per connection point, it could be really pricey... :sad2:

http://www.leanna.com/Bridal/Bustles.htm

However, there are some other bustle styles on there that might work better :thumbsup2
 
Love that tufted bustle that Carrie posted!! (Yes, I've stolen it for my bustle) Is your dress the Disney Belle dress??? IT'S LOOOOOOOOOVVVVVEEEELLLLLLLYYYYYYYYYYY
 
Your dress looks WONDERFUL!!! It looks like you two had a great party!

aww..your shower looked like so much fun! I LOVE your dress!!!!

I love your dress! It is so princessy!love your dress, it's beautiful!Is your dress the Disney Belle dress??? IT'S LOOOOOOOOOVVVVVEEEELLLLLLLYYYYYYYYYYY

Thank you all so much! I know not everyone was thrilled with the Disney collection, but I absolutely fell in love with this dress (to be honest, I wasn't a huge fan of some of the other Disney ones...) I do feel like a princess, what with all that swishy taffeta. I'm also a huge fan of the color; I look like Casperetta, the friendly bridal ghost, in white, but the light gold sets off my reddish/blondish highlights and brings out the gold in my eyes (which you can't see because I squint in all my pictures). I still get the "I'm too young for this/dressing up in my mother's clothes" feeling sometimes (as if my mom owned anything like this dress), but I have to remember that my mom got married at this age too.

It looks like they're doing a French bustle on your (lurvly!) gown, and I'm not crazy about it either.

Check out this site - they invented something called the "Tufted Bustle" especially for a gown with pickups, and it looks fabulous. However, if your seamstress is charging the standard $10 per connection point, it could be really pricey...

Carrie, you are my new hero! I figured I would just go without bustling rather than have my dress look weird, but the tufted bustle is perfect. The cost *should* be included in my obscenely high dress purchase price, but I'll ask at my second fitting next week. Yay for Disboards, and all your help/support!
 



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