on our seven day cruise, we had a nice sit down lunch on the first sea day, and was this ever a lot of fun. I think we were there for two hours. Every one just gabbed away. I think there were eleven adults. Then all our kids sat down together at another table. This was so much fun! The waiters were really good about keeping the kids entertained so that we could visit.
Then on my three day, one DIS member was very lucky and got an upgrade to a CAT 3, so we met in their room, but i can't remember if it was just prior to the drill or afterwards right before the sailaway. That just wasn't enough time, but on a three day your time is so limited.