Someone asked for this to be bottom lined, so this is how I would bottom line things (with lots of added editorial

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Bottom line:
No one has the right to tell anyone on the CB what to say or post except the DIS Moderating Team, the WM's and Pete himself. We all like different ways that people post on the boards. We all dislike different ways people post on the boards. I don't care who posts what about any televised event or show, in the title or not. I do care how other posters are treated. I hate to see people get slammed and treated harshly for an innocent mistake. I don't have the right to say who can and who can't post that way, I can only make my opinions known about it, I can't tell people how or what to post.
No one has the right to ask for an apology for anything they've read on the boards except again the DIS Moderating Team, the WM's and Pete himself. Asking someone to apologize for being excited, being elated and making an honest mistake was going way too far in my books, but I don't have the right to tell anyone not to post that, I can only make my opinions known about it.
Putting spoilers in the title of a post is not against DIS guidelines. Flaming someone and going around the word filter are both offenses that are against the DIS guidelines, they have gotten people banned in the past, but I don't have the right to tell anyone not to post like that, I can only make my opinions known about it.
Respect and courtesy go a long way, as do friendly PM's. This situation, where an exhuberent young person, who loves her sport, who was bursting at the seems to post about it, was chewed out over an innoncent mistake. It took me all of three seconds to look at her name, open her profile and see what she was all about. I knew immediately she wasn't a mean, nasty, troll looking to spoil all of your fun, but instead I found her to be a sweet person excited about life, who didn't deserve to get flamed the way she did and all I could do about it was let my opinions known and try to support her.
I think those of you who are watching this "spoiler" thing go awry on the DIS for the first time, or maybe the umpteenth time, should maybe take this as a fair warning. Sometimes people are new to the boards and they make mistakes, sometimes those of us who are not so new are people who are bursting with excitement at some great news (or not so great news like deaths and tragedies) and this "spoiler" thing is going to happen over and over and over again, by several different posters maybe, and maybe all at the same time. It's the way of the DIS (as is the flaming and bashing of posters for making innocent mistakes). It's going to happen again. And these types of threads will happen again. It's the DIS ... different day, same ol' stuff.

To avoid this kind of thing, or to avoid the fall out like these threads, all we can do is avoid the CB until it's over and we know it's safe, no spoilers can bother us.
People are people, they're human, they're filled with life, with flaws and with ways of doing things that we don't always like. In my opinion it's up to us to do what we like and let others be as long as they aren't harming anyone else. And being happy and trying to share that happiness isn't harming anyone.
Peace.