pocahontasgal87
~Disney Geek~
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- Sep 16, 2007
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so sorry bout everything, hugs and prayers to u and ur family
Morning all,
Thanks for all the prayers for my brother in law. I know I said he was a horse's patootie (and he is) but I don't know life without him. My sister is 12 years older than me and got married when I was just five. They dated for years before that so, like I said, I don't know life without him.
Friday and yesterday were awful. They couldn't keep him still long enough to do an MRI. They couldn't give him too many meds to call him down either because of his week condition.
Yesterday, was very bad on my sister. She has accepted that he won't be getting better but it's still hard. He hasn't spoken since being admitted in the emergency room but they know he can hear them because he will open his eyes when someone comes in the room.
Yesterday afternoon, the nurse told the family that he couldn't continue to breath as heavily as he is without doing more damage to his heart. His heart rate was extremely fast and his blood pressure was pretty high. They made the decision to not put him on life support and had to go through the heart wrenching procedure of signing the documents.
As of about 10:30 last night, his heart rate was very slow. They didn't say if that was a good thing or a bad thing. Even if it's a good thing, I can't see it improving the overall situation.
My mother is just beside herself which she doesn't need just a week and a half after artery bypass surgery. I've been doing her housework and running errands for her and tried to get her out of the house to keep her mind off of the things but she wouldn't leave the house for fear of missing a phone call. Yes, we have cell phones but she doesn't care.
I just couldn't stand it anymore so we took Hunter to eat out and to the movies last night. Had to get my mind elsewhere. We ran into three of Hunter's friends at the movies and he got to sit with them. We were able to visit with the mother and grandmother of the kids and it was nice to just chit chat.
Toy Story and Toy Story 2 in 3D was great. I just wish the screens were bigger so we could get the 3D effect more. But it was still nice to get out. That being said, I had my cell phone on vibrate and in my hand the entire time just in case somebody called.
I have a grocery run to make for Mama today but I will be back to catch up with everybody later on.
Thanks for listening to me ramble.
Lisa