Stepmom

[angel5809]

The thread was poofed.

Coincidentally, that was the last time we saw the OP post. She was the one that started the thread, and after her lie was exposed, she disappeared.

I don't understand why you guys think that I have been telling lies! I am still here, this is the first time I have ever been on a community board and would like to remove everything, even my profile. My sister told me about this. I didn't realize it would be all like this. So this thread was not poofed.

 

[wvjules]

who do you guys think that this is? I have never been on any message boards before? Please clue me in!

I don't understand why you guys think that I have been telling lies! I am still here, this is the first time I have ever been on a community board and would like to remove everything, even my profile. My sister told me about this. I didn't realize it would be all like this. So this thread was not poofed.

OP no worries. All kinds of people come to random disney message boards to vent about their DH's ex-wives and sons. Don't let the non-believers get you down.

 

[phorsenuf]

Does you sister post here then?

 

[FredinFL]

Don't take the boards too seriously honey, it'll drive ya crazy. Relax. Take the good advice and toss the bad. Have some fun. Poke around on other threads.

 

[angel5809]

Does you sister post here then?

I think she does, I am not sure, she just told me about this site and I wasn't sure where to go. She has in the past looked up stuff about Disney World on post.

 

[wvjules]

Does you sister post here then?

Oh, snap!

And I'm gonna say the answer is yes but OP is not going to tell you her ID because of how mean everyone is being?

 

[wvjules]

I think she does, I am not sure, she just told me about this site and I wasn't sure where to go. She has in the past looked up stuff about Disney World on post.

Honestly, *IF* you are new here (cough cough) why on earth would your first post on a message board on a website about disney vacation planning be about the troubles you have with your husband's ex wife? Don't you find that a bit odd?

 

[RitaE]

See - we practically have a world renowned reputation here when it comes to Family Counseling issues.

 

[FredinFL]

Putting the "dis" in dysfunction!

 

[MrsJackSparrow4Life]

So your sister told you it would be a good idea to come to a Disney chat forum in order to get advise about interaction between your husband, his ex and their son?

Interesting

May I suggest a Google search on forums dealing with blended families and their issues?

 

[angel5809]

Honestly, *IF* you are new here (cough cough) why on earth would your first post on a message board on a website about disney vacation planning be about the troubles you have with your husband's ex wife? Don't you find that a bit odd?

Honestly, I just asked by sister what message board she uses and she gave me this one. I just wanted some in put from other people on how to handle or what to do about this subject. I had no idea of what kind of message board I was using. I am so sorry about being so public on this site. I guess I should have research things a whole lot more and went to some other message board site other than Disney. My apologies to every that I ever used this site. If someone could tell me how to delete this I would and my profile I would do that also.

 

[angel5809]

So your sister told you it would be a good idea to come to a Disney chat forum in order to get advise about interaction between your husband, his ex and their son?

Interesting

May I suggest a Google search on forums dealing with blended families and their issues?

I never told her what the issue was about.

 

[angel5809]

So your sister told you it would be a good idea to come to a Disney chat forum in order to get advise about interaction between your husband, his ex and their son?

Interesting

May I suggest a Google search on forums dealing with blended families and their issues?

Thank you.

 

[RitaE]

I never told her what the issue was about.

yeah. She probably thought you were planning a Disney vacation and wanted to know if the Dining Plan is a good deal when she mentioned disboards.com. I guess you should have been more specific about what kind of advice you needed.

But hey, as long as you're here, do you have any random aches or pains? Because the DIS Doctors can blow WebMD out of the water. I guarantee it.

 

[phorsenuf]

yeah. She probably thought you were planning a Disney vacation and wanted to know if the Dining Plan is a good deal when she mentioned disboards.com. I guess you should have been more specific about what kind of advice you needed.

But hey, as long as you're here, do you have any random aches or pains? Because the DIS Doctors can blow WebMD out of the water. I guarantee it.

Classic!

 

[BeefJerky]

By the evil ex-wife.

CURSES! FOILED AGAIN!

 

[themermaidgirl]

I just read through all the posts here and gotta say, it makes me appreciate my stepmom so much more. Not that I didn't before, but this just makes me realise it tenfold!

 

[Tuffcookie]

Okay, I have not read all the replies. I have been divorced from my ex for 18 years. Our youngest son is 19 and a freshman in a local college. He lives with me and his dad and I share in his tuition. (Neither one of us has remarried) Youngest son has a job and pays for any extras. If he feels a college ring is something he wants he will have to pay for it himself! I feel he still lives at home and I do not charge him room & board, so he should pay for it. I do not mind paying his living expenses while he's in college but if he decides to move out he certainly isn't coming back with a girl friend/wife, & animals!

That said, I admire your ex for being the responsible man that he is! That is probably one of the traits that you found attractive in him. (I'm sure there were others! )

Do not hold a grudge over any communication your DH has with his ex over their son. And yes, this is his son because he has been in the step son's life since he was 3.

TC

 

[chloelovesdisney]

I'm 30 something years old and my divorced parents will still call each other to discuss my life at times. Your child is always your child. I don't see the issue at all, especially in regards with splitting the cost of the class ring. Get ready because their will be more in the future - wedding, grandchildren, etc..

 

[Liberty Belle]

yeah. She probably thought you were planning a Disney vacation and wanted to know if the Dining Plan is a good deal when she mentioned disboards.com. I guess you should have been more specific about what kind of advice you needed.

But hey, as long as you're here, do you have any random aches or pains? Because the DIS Doctors can blow WebMD out of the water. I guarantee it.