Starting to feel the pressure....

[jamie0201]

Hi guys... This may sound like a dumb post, but I am really starting to feel the pressure of the wedding.

I know I have approx. 10 weeks left, but if I feel overwhelmed now, how am I going to feel everyday until after the wedding??

Can anyone offer me some good advice?????

It just feels like time is flying and I have so much to do!!! I want this to be a happy time, and a time I can look back on with smiles... but I just feel very very overwhelmed! I am very excited for the wedding, so I am glad its almost here... just feeling all the pressure!

Ok... I just needed to get that out. Maybe it is just me being silly! I am hoping I am not the only one who has ever felt this way, and know I can always count on you all for great advice and support!

Thanks for listening
Jamie

 

[twojo21]

i have about a year so, i have yet to feel the crunch, but i think a great way to relax & unwind is to a) deligate some of the last minute tasks, have your h2b, bridemaids, parents, his parents help with some of the last minute details like wedding programs and finalizations of all things nupital. make it a fun affair, my moh did this for her wedding we had girls night chinese dinner & typed wedding programs, made tulle bowes, fake floral arrangments and shared lots of laughs. b) take some down time you don't want to get sick, take a nap, go to the spa for a massage, take a yoga class, whatever relax's you. enjoy! this is that once in lifetime moment, your wedding day, i'm sure everything will be perfect!

best of luck! i can't wait to hear all about your wedding & see the pics!

twojo21

i'm doing as much as i can now with plans, purchases, details and our pzd newsletters for our guests, etc. so i have less to do later, you'll have to give me tips later, i'm traveling from illinois too.

 

[jamie0201]

Thanks so much!!! I really appreciate the response!

Where in Illinois are you traveling from? I am in West Dundee.

Jamie

 

[twojo21]

We live in schaumburg!

I Hope everything goes to plan!

twojo21
"i'll probably bombard you with ?'s after the wedding. until then you know where to come with yours, i just love the dis! its so helpful"

 

[dreams91]

I know I have approx. 10 weeks left, but if I feel overwhelmed now, how am I going to feel everyday until after the wedding??

It just feels like time is flying and I have so much to do!!! I want this to be a happy time, and a time I can look back on with smiles... but I just feel very very overwhelmed! I am very excited for the wedding, so I am glad its almost here... just feeling all the pressure!

Jamie

I think we all felt that way at some point or time. And when you look back, you forget about all the stress and only remember "the day". At least I do. As for feeling overwhelmed, is it something you can get help with? Is it planning or just anxiety of trying to make sure everything is "right"? I know that I really started to feel the crunch the last couple weeks...especially since I decided to switch photographers with 2 weeks to go.

Just try to breathe and know that everything works out perfectly....Disney makes sure of it.

 

[jamie0201]

Thanks so much Cherie! I appreciate it. I think a lot of it, is just making sure everythign is "right" that day! I will be ok. Im going to delegate some of the things to get done to some family. Hopfully that will all work.

Twojo21 - I cant believe how close you are! We only live like 20 min away from one another... How funny! Are you having a custom or intimate wedding? Where are you having the ceremony and reception?

Fill me in!

Jamie