I've been playing with a group for about 3 years now. It's so much fun!! We do the alternate hosting thing each month, serving dinner and dessert. It's BYOB, but the hostess provides set-ups. Our group plays for cash. Each person chips in $12 for the evening. Each person (12 of us play) deals once around the table, then we stop for dessert and change our cards. Then we deal around the table again. During the game itself, we play for "straws." (1 for center, 1 for postage, 2 for pokeno, etc.) They're actually straws cut in half. Everyone saves their straws and counts them up at the end. The person with the most straws gets $50 and then they call Black Out. 2nd place gets $30, 3rd gets $20, ****ie prize gets $20, winner of Black Out gets $24.
We also do a "secret pal" exchange that is totally optional. In December, we draw names and bring gifts to our pal throughout the year. We try to give things specific to the person or for the holiday. In December, we reveal ourselves and start over for the next year. We fill out a form of likes/dislikes to help out our secret pal. I like this better!! I used to do secret pal, but would always forget and wait til the last minute to get a gift! This way, I can go, have fun, and just bring my money!