Spoke too soon...

[YodaGirl]

Looks like our trip to the Fort is back on. Got back home from the doctor earlier and they confirmed what we already knew...the baby died.

It's sad, but we'll be okay. Everything happens for a reason. We will look to God and know that while we may not understand why, we do know that we live in a fallen world, therefore bad things happen which are out of our control.

I knew the risks of telling so soon, and if I had it to do over again, I'd still tell.

As for now, I am going to throw all of my effort into what I do have. God has blessed me with a wonderful husband and the most amazing little girl you will ever meet, if I may be a bit prejudice.

I am also going to plan the most amazing Spring Break 2011 trip to WDW and the Fort.

 

[Dizney_Luver]

So sorry to hear this, your family is in our thoughts.

 

[MousekaMaddi]

 

[DaveInTN]

I'm so sorry to hear that. You have an inspiring attitude about accepting God's plan for you and your family. I am sending prayers your family's way.

 

[Minnie&Mickey]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[gmflanigan]

 

[Just Beachy]

I'm so sorry.

 

[des1954]

My heart aches for you. I lost 2 to miscarriages and was never able to conceive again. Yes, cherish that wonderful and precious daughter that you do have. Who knows.....you may return from the Fort with a little something "extra"! The Fort is a magical place.

 

[AuburnJen92]

Our prayers go out to your family in hopes that a Disney miracle will come your way. There was a reason it happened and let's all hope another miracle is on its way!

 

[Lil' Lisa]

You are in our prayers and we are also sending a bit of pixie dust in hopes that something magical happens at the fort.

 

[kampfirekim]

So sorry to hear the news. I have gone through a miscarriage as well. It happened just after we starting telling everyone. We've since been blessed w/2 great sons. Try to keep the great attitude of gratitude for what you do have. I know that you are hurting right now and you will be in my prayers tonight.

BTW, I'm sure you're little girl is a darling and yes, you may be prejudice if you like. I hope you have the trip of a lifetime!

 

[CampingChristy]

You and your attitude is such an inspiration to all! May God continue to bless you and yours!

 

[Sunbeamblue2002]

My heart goes out to you. I have lost a set a twins and had a miscarriage and know how hard that is. Please know my prayers are with you. I don't know how far along you were but if you need please private message me and I can give you links of groups that help with grief and infint dead that help me greatly. May God be with you in your time of need.

 

[disney4dan]

I am sorry to hear of your loss, and you will be in my prayers. After our first was born, there were many years and two surgeries before we could conceive again. The specialist cautioned us that the second procedure would need to be repeated in 6 months to a year if we did not conceive in that time (due to scarring that would develop after surgery). When 18 months had gone by we decided, like you, to be thankful for what we had and planned a big trip to WDW with other families. I am happy to say that we had to cancel that trip due to the unexpected arrival of our little girl. We were fortunate to have a caring OB doctor who took good care of us; we nearly lost her in the first two months, but he had us in the office for frequent blood work at the first sign of trouble and I would have to drive to a specialty pharmacy on a weekly basis to get a compounded hormone replacement that my wife was not able to produce for that pregnancy. We questioned that decision so often, were we being tested, what was the real plan? Were we interfering in a pregnancy that should not be? As you can tell from the photo in my signature, that decision was the right one and we have a beautiful, intelligent and caring girl to thank for those choices. I wish you luck, and I only share this as a long-winded way of saying I understand the emotions and thoughts/questions that run through your mind when there are difficult pregnancies.

 

[arielmomma]

May God bless you and your family in this time of loss. I said a prayer for you and your family.

 

[auntie]

I'm sorry.

 

[YodaGirl]

Thanks, everyone, for your kind words, thoughts, and prayers. It really does mean a lot. We will make it through this and accept whatever God has planned for us.

Once again, thank you all for everything. Hope to see some of you at the Fort in the Spring.

 

[liv luvs disney]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I had 3 miscarriages in one year and between hormones and emotions, I was not a sane person for a good while. (My family might argue that I'm still not sane. LOL) It definitely made me more sensitive to other women who have experienced miscarriages and families that can't get pregnant or have difficulties getting pregnant. For now, just enjoy that precious little girl of yours. I have a feeling, we'll be hearing some good news from you soon.

 

[mgsmom]

I'm so sorry for your loss! It sounds like you have a good attitude and your family will certainly help you with your grief.
You are in my prayers.

 

[Millermouseketeers]

I am so sorry for your loss. I know that is a disappointment. I had 3 miscarriages but now have 3 children so yes God does have a plan. Take care.