HELP.........................Anyone out there have to make a spaghetti brigde out of spaghetti and dried beans????
DS (11yr old) has a project that is due on 10/21 and we just spent 3 hours and did not accomplish a thing.....all we did was get very frustrated and she is near tears...................... Is this how we are to spend "quality time" with our children? She is crying and we are frustrated as we are not sure how to help without doing the project ourselves.....(which goes against everything we believe in as far as homework is concerned).......
Any hints or suggestions would be welcome......Thanks

DS (11yr old) has a project that is due on 10/21 and we just spent 3 hours and did not accomplish a thing.....all we did was get very frustrated and she is near tears...................... Is this how we are to spend "quality time" with our children? She is crying and we are frustrated as we are not sure how to help without doing the project ourselves.....(which goes against everything we believe in as far as homework is concerned).......
Any hints or suggestions would be welcome......Thanks


This kind of project should be done IN school as a team effort. At 11 years old, it's almost impossible to do it without the help or energy of your parents.
But, I could see how an 11 year old I could find it really frustrating. 