You're flying Southwest? Impossible - given that there are NO assigned seats, EVER, on Southwest.DISNEYFOS said:IIn my example, I'd like to clarify that I tried to pay the 'Fee" for assigned seats and there are virtually no seats together for the return flight. none, nadda, zippo. For those of you that would refuse to move because you paid your 10 dollars..do I offer you double? Shall the seat go to the highest bidder?
There's no "trend". Southwest does not preassign seats. Never did (well, except for one short-lived, apparently unsuccessful, brief period at one airport). ALL other airlines preassign seats.DISNEYFOS said:Sorry guys but I think the no assigned seating trend with these airlines stinks!
Ouch! No need to shout ('yelling' turned off for the comfort of future readers(I forgot who I quoted) said:OMgoodness it is given to people who pay more. Yes you pay for a refundable gicket, but it is based on how much you paid. SO what I said is not false. It does say those who paid anytime fares (which are more) get priority. She asked "So you pay more you get priority" and I said YES. It is based off of what you pay. I'm not arguing over paying or 24hr check in I'm just stating that if you pay more for the anytime fare and the $10 check in you get priority over the person who paid less and paid the $10 fee. Just stating a fact.
)! You know something? If someone who paid $350 for the same ticket I got for $89 gets preference in the early-bird check-in, that makes absolute sense.I wouldn't especially like it, but since I like my seat, I'd pay the fee - and continue to fly the same airline.pyrxtc said:What would you say if you booked another airline and 3 weeks before you flew out they took away thier assigned seats and they said, alright, now pay me to get a better chance to have a seat you like? You woulnd't like that would you ?
Trying to check in to get a 'better' boarding pass? Why? The early bird checkin fee includes Southwest assigning the passenger's boarding pass number before online checkin opens.pyrxtc said:The $10 is like taking a bribe, except wiht SW they will take that $10 from everyone on the plane and then we are all back at square one, trying to check in to get a better pass.
Actually, yes - thank you for asking. I'm in the seat I'm in for personal reasons (it's close to the bathroom, I'm superstitious, whatever). I'm also a responsible person able and willing to follow instructions. Yes, I will attach my own face mask first (as required) and then I will turn to your child or any passenger next to me who needs assistance, and provide it. If you don't trust me or your fellow passengers to be that responsible, you would probably be better off on another airline.Tinkermom6 said:If you are a single person on a flight and there is an emergency are you gonna rush to put your oxygen mask on then hurry to help my child
Tinkermom6 said:and I work in the emergency management field and I can tell you for sure that if the oxygen masks fell no stranger would rush to take care of my child.
Yes it was noticed; one way a parent separated from a child on a flight could 'plan for "it"' would be to politely request that your child's seatmate please fasten child's oxygen mask if that became necessary.Tinkermom6 said:and if you didn't notice I work in Emergency Management so I see how people react Every Day in fact I plan for it.
Correct - because according to the safety instructions demonstrated, narrated, and on a card on every flight each passenger NEEDS to be the first thing on their own mind - attach one's own oxygen mask FIRST and all that.Tinkermom6 said:I'm sorry but it's true and a lot (most)of adults will panic in an emergency situation and MY child or anone elses child will not be the first thing on their mind.
Just so y'all know - many/most of us disabled people can/do travel without a caretaker. I happen to need to be near the restroom, and no, I'm not moving for anyone.kpgriswold said:I have four kids. I would GLADLY move my 13 or 15 year-olds to sit alone if it meant letting a parent and a little one sit together. Or an older or handicapped person with a caretaker.henry72 said:I would be willing to move where I am sitting so a family with young children or someone with a disablility could sit next to their caretaker.
Not sure how long you'd be 'allowed' to delay the flight. An alternative would be for you to take a later flight.henry72 said:I expect that on the flight, there will be someone who is nice and has the manners to realize that my 1-year-old (who I am paying for her own seat) will need her mother next to her. If not, I guess the flight won't be taking off as I am not letting her sit by herself.
Self-entitled, mistrustful, cynical, judgemental parents and such ride airplanes all the time - much more frequently and blatantly than the "God knows who" crowd. And there are far fewer members of the mile high club than you apparently think - not that it matters because they're all consenting pairs of adults.caligirl stuck in va said:For two, the children would be subject to sitting next to GOD knows who, yes, freaks and druggies and molesters and such ride airplanes, too. And if you think that something "would never happen" on a plane, just ask all those people who have joined the mile high club on a packed plane.
Where are you seeing animosity toward children? As pointed out in an earlier post, there's no forum full of eight, ten, twelve, fifteen year old kids complaining about not being able to sit with their parents on a plane. No, any animosity is toward the parents - parents who think that traveling with children automatically entitles them to seats together; parents who threaten - blatantly or subtly - other passengers with the responsibility of those children...caligirl stuck in va said:No, people with families and children should not get more than they deserve. (I don't even understand where this anymosity toward children is coming from,
Read it again. You're interpreting blunt reality as venom. The only venom I'm seeing is from parents who think that traveling with children supercedes everything else, including all other passengers' needs. By the way, mild claustrophobia would indicate a NEED to sit next to a window.caligirl stuck in va said:I am completely and utterly blown away by the VENOM spewing on this thread.
Wouldn't the stats for kidnapping be even lower? Is there even any record of any passenger being kidnapped from a plane (hijackings aside)?yitbos96bb said:The other thing I want to point out... you do realize that 95-97% of sexual assaults (depending on the child's age) are by people the child knows. They would be much more likely to have an uncle do something to them than a stranger on an airplane... Kidnappings have similar statistics....
Strongly disagree. MOST passengers fly for less than it costs the airline to transport them. Even Southwest is losing money. Nobody's 'adding to their coffers'. The airlines are just trying to survive - if they can't get us to pay a reasonable amount for airfare, they'll add fees to recoup some losses.yitbos96bb said:I'm sorry, but we are being ripped off... they added to their coffers and instead of passing on some savings were just greedy.
Fair enough. You've made the informed choice that between A and B isn't good enough for you and you'd like to maximize your chances of getting an A. Makes sense.
Further, a child that sick with the flu should not have been flying - whether sitting next to a parent or not.
My child got the flu the day we left and the other one got it in Florida I am a single mom who saves very hard to take my kids away and could not afford to lose the money. I do plan and do everything that I can to make sure my children and I will sit together especially since it's just me and them but what I am saying is if we all pay the EB fee then am I still not entitled to sit with my kids. And yes I have been on problematic flights and if I was not near my children I would have freaked because they are MY resposibility and I would want to make sure they are taken care of, no one else will take care of my kids the way I will and if you didn't notice I work in Emergency Management so I see how people react Every Day in fact I plan for it.
You do not know me I am actually a very nice person who will go out of my way to help anyone with anything and I would not walk on the plane and demand people move for me I would ask very politely and hopefully someone would be willing to move and no I would no berate someone for not moving.I though if I wasn't travelling with my kids and it was just adults or even my teen would move so a parent could sit with a child. I think SW needs to rethink this policy especially since we are talking about an Orlando flight which will be mostly families who will want to sit together. A lot of people complain way too much about kids when it comes to Disney discussions.
bolding is mine...They cannot allow young children to sit without a parent, so I wouldn't worry to much about it. This happened to me on a Southwest flight about 2 years ago when my dd was 5. We were traveling alone and there were not 2 seats together. No one was offering up a seat, so I found the first open one, sat my dd down and loudly annouced (in a lighthearted tone)..well Gianna you will be sitting here with these two strangers, let them know what movie you want, that you like apple juice and remember to let them know when you need to go to the bathroom. I will be way in the back of the plane where the next available seat is. Hope you ALL have a good flight ;-) You have never seen so many people offer up their seats NOT to have to sit with the 5 year old!![]()
What makes you so much better than anyone else on that plane, that others need to move for you? I don't get that mentality. 
bolding is mine...I would not be concerned at all.
I just flew Southwest to Orlando (& back) about 4 days ago. They have open seating, which means that you can pick your seats. They are very efficient about the way they do it.
FIRST: Group A (passengers 1 - 60) board (your boarding pass is numbered, and you must line up accordingly.)
SECOND: Any family with kids under 4, & those with disabilities board
THIRD: Group B (passengers 61-120) board
FOURTH: Group C boards
You'll be fine, don't sweat it, or even THINK about paying the extra fee.
I guess I'm not really so sure what you are all worried about?See this is what gets me about the whole policy. They implemented the change effective immediately. So those of us who purchased tickets under the old policy, when we could have likely gotten seats with our children no problem, now have to deal with the new policy. We don't HAVE the choice to select another airline that lets us choose our seats, because we already bought tickets. I think that reeks.
Also, even paying the fee doesn't *guarantee* me the spot I might need in order to sit with my kids. That's what's really messed up about the policy--the fee guarantees nothing, especially if a lot of people on the flight choose to pay it.
Last time we went to WDW we flew AirTran, and yes, I paid the seat selection fee so that I could choose my seats and ensure my whole family got to sit next to each other. But, I bought SW this time, thinking I could check-in 24 hours in advance and get the passes I need to ensure that my DH and 7-year old can sit together (as I and my 3-year-old can board between A and B and will almost definitely be able to sit together). But now who knows what will happen with DH and my 7-year-old, since a 24-hour check in could very well put them in a C category with the new rules. Had this been the case, I would not have purchased SW tickets. I would have chosen AirTran, so I could choose my seats. Again, I am not keen on paying the $10 fee for older DD and DH because it guarantees nothing. I'd be upset if I paid the fee and still got placed in a low enough category that they ended up separated, as that would defeat the whole purpose. At least with AirTran, when you pay for your assignment, you are getting an actual, guaranteed *seat number*, not just a boarding group.
On the other hand, I am trying to take a deep breath and not be so over-protective of my 7-year-old. In all likelihood she will be just fine sitting alone for a 2 1/2 hour flight if it comes to that. But it's hard for us mommas to let go. I worry that she'll be nervous or scared by herself.


bolding is mine...
Ummm, you need to get the order straight
Those with disabilities board FIRST before ANYONE else, not between A and B with the families w/ small children. And for the record, we have been on flights espically leaving MCO where they skipped the family boarding altogether as they may as well have boarded the whole plane in that group. We also had it happen ONE time from BWI. Pretty much the whole plane was full of families with small children.
Also, if everyone just had some gumption and "Just Said NO" to the early check in fee, it wouldn't be a problem.
Don't the FAs show the locations of the bathrooms during the safety lecture? Can't the child walk down the aisle and find the parent if there is a question?You're flying Southwest? Impossible - given that there are NO assigned seats, EVER, on Southwest.
There's no "trend". Southwest does not preassign seats. Never did (well, except for one short-lived, apparently unsuccessful, brief period at one airport). ALL other airlines preassign seats.

Actuallly if you had read a previous post you would of seen I was speaking of Air Tran. They charge $6 to assign seats. My point being everyone has assumed paying a fee is the way to solve the problem. Unfortunately, I have paid the fee and I had to choose a window and aisle for both my children, my husband and myself. I will be boarding the plane expecting to ask the person in the middle seat to allow me to switch with them to sit next to my two year old. Assuming a person is coming up to you because they didn't pay their fee is a bad assumption.
Also for the bad rap parents with small children seem to have with business travelers a previous poster has mentioned...I'm afraid I've been on both sides before children..and I've seen the business traveller, scrambling for the front row...Stuffing his/her just barely the right size carryon in to the best overhead bin they can find (even if its 10 rows up from their seat and not allowing for people in those seats to have a place for their bags)...I've also seen that same business traveler push people aside to get off that plane, wacking people off the head getting their carry-on out of the overhead bin. The picture is not all that pretty either.
We all have our priorities, but civility and common courtesy to all our fellow travelers regardless of their predicament would certainly go a long way to make it more pleasant experience.![]()
So here's something I don't understand- a very young child- like 4 and under, probably truly cannot sit alone. I know if I plunked my 2 year old on to a seat surrounded by strangers, he'd scream inconsolably and probably try to wiggle out of his seat belt and make a run for it. So why is it that these passengers, very very young children, are not treated like any disabled person that requires seating next to a companion? I am all for parent responsibility- and that is one reason I choose to fly on an airline that assigns seats- but it seems to me that very young children do have special needs and they are paying customers. Why are they less entitled to seating with a companion than, say, someone with a broken leg? They are just as unable to sit alone.
Southwest used to have family boarding that pretty much guaranteed that children under 4 were seated with a companion. Now with the new boarding process, it may be impossible for parents of children under 4 to find seats together, no matter how careful and responsible the parent is. That's hardly fair to the customer with the special need- in this case a young child.
I think this is the airline's problem. I don't think they need to gaurantee that families can sit together. Most kids over 5 will be ok without mom for a couple of hours, and definately the whole family doesn't *need* to sit together in most cases. But a 2 year old definately needs his/her mom/dad/grandma/aunt/whatever to have a safe, comfortable flight. The airline needs to find some way to make sure that happens for the very little ones.
I don't think the PP read this thread. The issue isn't with kis under 5. SW offers family mid-boarding. Passengers would volunteer to move for a young child.
Posters in this thread, and the thread in the transporation board, have an issue being seperated from kids as old as 12. Sorry but I won't move away from my wife so a parent who didn't want to pay $10 can sit next to her 12 hear old child.
A child who's old enough to ride a school bus without a parent is old enough to fly and sit a few rows from a parent.
Wow, if I am the PP you refered to I indeed read the entire thread - including the two posts I responded to.
Two of the three posters just prior to my post were posting about the need for young children to sit with an adult on SWA. Both mentioned, "very yong children" and "children 4 and under" I was responding to their concerns.
I don't think the PP read this thread. The issue isn't with kis under 5. SW offers family mid-boarding. Passengers would volunteer to move for a young child.
Posters in this thread, and the thread in the transporation board, have an issue being seperated from kids as old as 12. Sorry but I won't move away from my wife so a parent who didn't want to pay $10 can sit next to her 12 hear old child.
A child who's old enough to ride a school bus without a parent is old enough to fly and sit a few rows from a parent.