The Lord will guide you all. Prayers continue for all, and for continued strength for the long road ahead. Sophie and all of her family are never far from my mind. This little girl has had such a huge impact on me. I especially have a special place in my heart for you because my family was impacted by the Station Fire in Rhode Island. I understand some of what you are experiencing. I know that the road ahead is a long one. And I understand the strength that you can find in the compasion of all who are touched by you and praying for you.
If you will allow me the liberty to share a story with you...
I had just written a post on Monday in follow up to Mike's post. You truly are on my mind continually, and I check for Sophie's condition daily. I had planned to stay home that day, but after thinking about life and it's uncertaintees, I decided instead to take my niece out to lunch and to enjoy a bit of local tourism. While we were on the road, we were struck by a car who's driver performed a very thoughtless tactic. As we collided, I prayed to God; he screamed and yelled. We pulled off the road and into a lot and he proceeded to scream and throw his arms around and carry on. I simply looked at him and said "excuse me sir, but I will not yell and swing my arms around and behave like you." "Your two children, you, my passenger, and I are not hurt; and our cars look drivable." "Cars are replacable, but people aren't." He calmed down. But he kept checking on his car (I would have had my arms around my kids; but I guess people are different). He started on again about his 11-year old car, and I just looked at him and said "Sir, this week I heard about a gentleman who lost his wife and daughter due to a fire in their home, and his infant daughter is in the hospital struggling to survive." "This accident means nothing to me." "Your kids are fine, and that is the big picture." He looked down at the ground and shook his head, then he looked up at me and said that he was sorry. His entire attitude changed after that. On the way home, my niece asked me how I could have remained so composed and not cared about my car. I told her your story. She understood. -- Sophie and her family have helped to keep me focussed; and have helped a silly man to put his priorities into perspective. -- My niece now prayes for you, and I am hoping the man who hit my car is as well.