somewhat vent

[Fatphil32]

I think I'm screwed up when it comes to girlfriends.. It happened again to me. Long story short, I almost dated a girl about six months ago. Then after we kind of decided not to date, she ended up getting arrested and expelled from her high school for drug possesion with intent to sell. So, I started talking to another girl about a month ago. We like "went out" in 4th grade so and I'm best friends with her brother so we've always been close. Well, she told me a few Saturdays ago that she liked me. And I sort of liked her. However, one of my other best friends [not her brother] was talking to me yesterday and was like "Hey, are you and Tiff still talking?" And I was like yeah. Then he told me that last week she told him that she could see them dating. Then my best friend traded phones with another friend of mine. He was messing around with it and found text from two weeks ago from her and the other friend and she was asking him some pretty sexual questions and asking him if he would fool around with her. Then she admitted to having sex two years ago when she was an incoming freshman [she's a year older than me] with this guy at our school. She had sex with that guy, and was "talking" with me and my two friends... and she just broke up with her boyfriend of two years yesterday.

So recap, girl has boyfriend of two years. Cheats on him. Then tells three other guys she likes them basically.

Seriously ***, lol. I haven't had a girlfriend since like 5th grade and this is basically why. I've never even done anything with a girl that lives within three hours of me. Every girl I text usually is from neighboring states or are just friends with me at mys chool. I think I find these like bad girls too much. Haha, end of somewhat vent.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Aw, you attract the crazies. It'll be okay.

 

[Sparx]

sounds like you need to change the kind of girl that you go after.

 

[Fatphil32]

sounds like you need to change the kind of girl that you go after.

I didn't know either of them were like that. Heck, I was talking to a girl earlier in January who hadn't even kissed a guy yet..

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Do you want advice or hugs?

Because I'm bad at giving both. XD


I mean...usually (and im saying this based on the male population at my school).

The guys who accidentally attract (or are attracted to) girls like that....is because they're outrageously "pretty" (but in my mind...they're not all that pretty) or wear makeup a lot, or do that personal question thingy too much, or play the nervous game.

Really, there are girls ALL over the place who maybe aren't the 'prettiest' to you, who maybe DONT do crazy things, but are really wonderful and nice, and when you get to meet them and accept them for who they are, you'll realize that they accepted you for who YOU are, and maybe thats the kind of person you want to be with.

Theres really a person for everyone.

Thats just my opinion. I really dont know that much about you. I guess that statement was based personally off of the way I feel about most of the guys in my school.

They're ridiculous. My best friend last year... fell for a girl...who was already going out with a guy...who dumped him to go out with his best friend...then got back together with him..and cheated on him with almost every guy in our schools production...and the one guy she didn't screw over (my best friend)...fell for her anyway when she put her name down in his contacts with a bunch of little hearts.

The above statement probably made absolutely NO sense.

Oh well..

now for the hug part :

 

[Fatphil32]

Do you want advice or hugs?

Because I'm bad at giving both. XD


I mean...usually (and im saying this based on the male population at my school).

The guys who accidentally attract (or are attracted to) girls like that....is because they're outrageously "pretty" (but in my mind...they're not all that pretty) or wear makeup a lot, or do that personal question thingy too much, or play the nervous game.

Really, there are girls ALL over the place who maybe aren't the 'prettiest' to you, who maybe DONT do crazy things, but are really wonderful and nice, and when you get to meet them and accept them for who they are, you'll realize that they accepted you for who YOU are, and maybe thats the kind of person you want to be with.

Theres really a person for everyone.

Thats just my opinion. I really dont know that much about you. I guess that statement was based personally off of the way I feel about most of the guys in my school.

They're ridiculous. My best friend last year... fell for a girl...who was already going out with a guy...who dumped him to go out with his best friend...then got back together with him..and cheated on him with almost every guy in our schools production...and the one guy she didn't screw over (my best friend)...fell for her anyway when she put her name down in his contacts with a bunch of little hearts.

The above statement probably made absolutely NO sense.

Oh well..

now for the hug part :

lol, nah I don't need hugs. I mean it wasn't like we were seriously haha and I still have plenty of time for girls. I'm just needed to type that out haha. And I'm usually really picky with my girls. Like most of the time I know them really, really well and they're not any different than I'd like [which is another reason I never have a gf].

 

[CastawayJ]

at least you have better luck then I have had
would you like some stories from my side, they might sheer you up

 

[imabrat]

Yeah, um, I think it's time to back away from the dating scene temporarily. No offense, but the crazies are obv. attracted to you, and that's not a good thing.

 

[JulielovesDisney]

Hang in there, give it some time, and you'll meet some normal girls! haha
You seem to be having some bad luck right now.

 

[minniemouse440044]

I didn't know either of them were like that. Heck, I was talking to a girl earlier in January who hadn't even kissed a guy yet..

that is so me.

 

[Fatphil32]

Hang in there, give it some time, and you'll meet some normal girls! haha
You seem to be having some bad luck right now.

Hahaha bad luck for sure. Just had some salt added to the injury.. So I was talking to Rachel and figured I'd search the name and city of the girl I had my first kiss with. I met her on a cruise in 2004 and haven't seen her since. Well, I found this:

http://www.news4jax.com/news/16245494/detail.html

And I wasn't 100% sure if it was her, so I searched her on MySpace. Her #1 friend's name is Tyler and she has photos with captions that say "RIP Tyler" and stuff like that.

 

[Fatphil32]

Oh and to add to the best day ever.. So, I was in Cincinnati this weekend when this happened:

http://news.cincinnati.com/article/20090703/NEWS0103/307030001/Man+killed+in+ski-boat+accident

And today a friend of mine texted me and her's how the convo goes:

me: we should chill soon
him: i cant im in KY until wed.
me: why
him: my uncle died yesterday
me: sorry to hear that. what happened?
him: he got hit by a boat ):
me: oh that sucks
him: ya ik
me: holy sh** i heard about it the other day. it was on the news
him: u serious? where at?
me: i'm in cinci right now. so the local channel 5
him: ya he was skiing and fell off and got hit

And I was suppose to go snowboarding with my friend this Winter and his uncle was going to meet us out at one of the resorts to go with us. At least he died doing what he loved.

 

[minniemouse440044]

john im so sowwie D:

 

[BabyPiglet]

Aw.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Thats terrible.

 

[pigletgirl]

That is horrible about your friend! Honestly though, it sounds like that girl isn't worth keeping around. I suggest you don't put any ounce of effort into a relationship with her if she's going to to sleep around with other guys.

 

[life of the party]

aww im sorry .
not all girls are as good as me & rach (;

dont even worry about that chick.
she's so not worth it.



and im sorry about your friends uncle :/


and finding this thread was really funny because it was located above megs vent thread and looked like this:

somewhat vent
MAJOR vent


xD