something we should all read I think

binny

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this is long, but this really struck a chord with me. How many of us do this sort of thing all the time?


EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ ALL OF THIS and HAVE YOUR CHILDREN READ IT TOO!

After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line . She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:



ByAngel213:
Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!



GoTo123:
LOL You watch too much T. V. Why would someone be following you?


Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?

ByAngel213:

Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.

GoTo123:

Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?


ByAngel213:
Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.

GoTo123:

Did you have a softball game after school today?


ByAngel213:

Yes and we won!!

GoTo123:

That's great! Who did you play?


ByAngel213:

We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL



GoTo123: What is your team called?



ByAngel213:

We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.


GoTo123:

Did you pitch?



ByAngel213:

No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!



GoTo123:

Catch you later. Bye



Meanwhile......GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out.

He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.
Her name: Shannon

Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985

Age: 13

State where she lived: North Carolina

Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall.

Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came ome from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told
him all this in the conversations they had on-line. He had enough information to find her now.



Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child.
Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.



By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.

Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was en that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to sea man watching her closely.



He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.



After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach.

She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.

Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.



Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon 's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.



Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.
" Shannon , come here," her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.


"Sit down," her father began, "this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."



Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!



"Do you know who I am, Shannon ?" the man asked.



"No," Shannon answered.



"I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."



Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan !"



The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true.

You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze."



Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan ?"



He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh . It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?"


She nodded.


"I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the
time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"



" It's a promise! "



That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation.
 
Thanks for the reminder. I have a daughter who is starting to branch out from playhousedisney.com and I try to warn her about the dangers but this story really illustrates how easy it is to get comfortable on the internet. I will be sure to share this with her.
 
http://www.snopes.com/horrors/parental/shannon.asp

It was written as a "cautionary tale".

And it's from 1998!

Still, it's good to remind children not to give out info online. DS plays a game on Disney's web site that leads you further into an adventure by answering questions about being online etiquette. He's learning as he plays.
 
I certainly didnt take it as real. I meant to post that sorry. I was sure it was a story but I thought it was a good reminder.
 

Yeah, I immediately knew it was an urban legend, so much of that junk is like snakes in ball pits, and syringes in movie theaters, i don't take any of it seriously
 
That story is a good reminder to kids (and parents) though. I wonder if there really are groups that do this? It would be neat to be part of a group that could help teach kids the dangers of online chatting.
 
Who really cares if this story is actually true or not. The real issue is that it COULD be. I believe this story is very plausible and should be shared with any child that frequents chat rooms on the internet. Chat rooms can be a safe haven for kids to express themselves, but they can also be detrimental to those that do not use caution and common sense, something that matures with age.

If you have a child that uses chat rooms share this story, fiction or not, with them TODAY! Make sure they have all the protection they need online.

Brenda
 
Urban legend or not, who cares, the message is real. Thanks for posting this I just read it with my 10 year old and it inspired a nice conversation on the subject.:thumbsup2
 
Maybe if it wasn't so hard to read. :headache:

And IMO urban legends should be allowed to die a quick death.
 
That story is a good reminder to kids (and parents) though. I wonder if there really are groups that do this? It would be neat to be part of a group that could help teach kids the dangers of online chatting.

Usually the groups/cops do it the other way around where they pretend to be a child/teen and wait for an adult to prey on them. I couldn't imagine anyone actually stalking real kids like this though. It doesn't matter how much you try to convince a judge that you were just doing it to show them the dangers - you would be in serious trouble. Look at that TV show "Dateline" whenever they do the To catch a predator series - that's the first thing the pervs say - "I wasn't really going to do anything, I just wanted to show them how dangerous it was" Yeesh!!!!
Personally, I never liked these Urban Legend things with made up stories used to scare kids. It reminds me of the stupid stories I used to hear as a kid about the dangers of hitchhiking or the dangers of drugs i.e. " Reefer Madness". The made up stories were really pathetic. Anyone remember the book "Go Ask Alice"? ( I know, showing my age here) that they tried to convince us was a real story. Uh yeah, a girl is given LSD by accident and 2 weeks later she's main lining speed. She smokes pot so a few weeks after that she just has to have heroin. And it was all her fault for wearing "hippie" clothes and she should have just listened to her parents. Why not just use a real story???
 
I certainly didnt take it as real. I meant to post that sorry. I was sure it was a story but I thought it was a good reminder.

Absolutely a good reminder. I remember readin it, and having both kids read it as well.:thumbsup2
 
Binny, thank you for posting this.

I don't give a rat's butt if it's real or not. :rolleyes:

It brings home an important point. My daughter is starting to use the internet more and I will be certain to share this with her, after I PRINT IT to edit out all of the naysayers. ;)

Thanks, again, Binny. Authentic or not, you done good. :thumbsup2
 
Something doesn't need to be true to teach a lesson. Its a good lesson for anyone!
 


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