Hello all!
Hope all is well. Happy (belated) birthday tlinus!
I can weigh in on working moms and non-working moms... I've done both and both are hard, in different ways.
When I stayed at home with kiddies (7 years), I was busy all day long. House was never clean and I couldn't catch up. But, was around for the kids (babies then!) and enjoyed being there.
Then I went to work full time. And all heck broke loose... no seriously, I don't get everything done. I buy cupcakes, I don't bake them. And now the kids help (sort of) cleaning the house.
I do however know of women who work AND get it all done. I view them with deep suspicion...

And I don't think they sleep.. at all...
And as for me, now I'm unemployed, but still working full time hours, for no pay... talk about the worst of all worlds!! Craziness.
Best to all,
E