I am sorry if my post sounded angry. I guess I just got a little worked up over nothing. I just kept seeing posts about how people who would take the cruise are suckers, and I took it personally. But, you know what? I guess I can be guilty of the same thing. The guy next door just bought a Jaguar. As soon as I saw it I thought "Who would pay that much for a car?" I guess I thought he was a "sucker".
My wife used to insist that experiences are more important than things. She used to tell me that things wear out, but experiences last forever. So, I always try to honor her memory by spending time with my family, and making sure that my daughter gets to experience all the great things her Mom would have wanted her to. When we first got married, my wife kept driving this beat up VW bug just so we could afford a Cruise (I had to duct tape the rear view mirror back on the car once a week!). That's just how she was.
Well, I hate to say it, but my Dad would agree with you all! He thinks traveling and spending so much time and money at Disney is silly. But, this is just the way I have decided to go.
So, I am really sorry if I came off like an ogre. Really.