Next time you go into a store make sure they have all your info. We always got coupons around the holidays because my husband would buy me lotion every year. Recently we have been getting 2 sets of coupons, one for him and one for me. In October I got a set with a coupon for one free item. I was able to get my friend a fall 3 wick candle for free and bought a beautiful holder with a good discount. I think I paid $12 total. I think she was shocked because we only buy each other small gifts.
So anyway, you don't have to be a frequent customer, but I would ask a salesperson how to increase your chances.