Diana, this is a lovely thought - that we could "do something", but as I said in my first post about what happened to me this year (not in my trippie though, maybe I should have) here is what I think as far as facilitating change:
I truly believe that people do not appreciate being TOLD how to behave, and a lot of behavior is culture-bound, so that what we might consider rude, is actually not seen that way by others - as bizarre as that may seem to us, because we think "how can they not think it's horrid to elbow a 6 year old!??" or whatever... and of course from our point of view we are absolutely right... but your question was not about who is right, it was about how we can make things better. And I think that the only way to do this is the what we are doing now, and every time we go to DLP - we are SETTING AN EXAMPLE. By keeping our love for the place and what it stands for alive, by going with a smile, time after time, and by keeping our positive love and attitude foremost, we are slooooowwwwwwly, but surely, changing not only DLP but the world. I think it's fine to report once in a while when things happen that are not to our liking - everyone needs to vent and get support from like-minded people - we are human and we like a little pity and comfort once in a while... but I would only complain about DLP on a forum where everyone loves it as much as I do BECAUSE I know, and I believe, that on the whole it is a beautiful place full of kindness and magic, and that BY OUR EXAMPLE, the small amount of negative is slowly evolving to a happy "medium" that can make everyone feel good.
As for the character interactions specifically - Liav and I made a particular effort this year to observe the people of other cultures, looking to see if they were unhappy. What I saw was a bit of a revelation. I had been so busy being "upset" that there was no queue for the characters and that the CM's accompanying them did not organize things, that I had missed how HAPPY everyone seemed!!! The crowds - yes, disorganized and frustrating as they were to us - of little kids around Stitch, Woody, and some bear character whose name escapes me - were full of SMILING kids - all from cultures other than my own (and non-English speaking) were not suffering!! Our perceptions can sometimes cloud our "good-bad" meters... I had a flash that standing in a quiet and orderly queue where the only person interacting with the character is the one whose "turn" it was, was maybe just not quite as exciting or "happy" as the "chaos" they seemed to enjoy.
I'm NOT advocating that we don't have organized queues! I'm just saying that "our way" is not always the "right way". What is ALWAYS right is people being considerate of one another and looking out for one another and as long as we keep a positive attitude and our love for the place and for all people foremost in our minds, we ARE facilitating change - and the change will evolve naturally and painlessly.
I believe that "fighting against" something, only shines a light on the bad, and causes resentment. So I'll keep going to the Disney parks, probably for the rest of my life, and I'll keep behaving in the way that I deem right, and trying to notice only the good in everyone else. I have a feeling that 10 years from now we can start a thread called "How things have changed for the better", and even with no "wars" against the "horrid" things that we don't like we'll have tons of responses to celebrate!!!! YAY!!!!
