Pet Peeves of mine that don't have to do with guests at all: When Disney shortens words RIDICULOUSLY. Specifically, "Soarin'" rather than "Soaring" and "Rock 'n' Roller Coaster" rather than "Rock & Roller Coaster". There used to be a Jungle Jammin' Parade as well. Drives me crazy in an irrational way. Not park specific, but I also hate how they have Disney movie titles are now adjectives instead of nouns. For some reason
Sleeping Beauty and
Cinderella have way more gravitas to me than
Brave, Tangled, and
Frozen. As a vegetarian I also get really ticked off when there are no vegetarian options at a counter service. This has been happening way more often lately (the new CS at the Poly, Harambe Market, and the food trucks at DTD (upon original opening) come to mind quickly). I also REALLY hate hearing kids and adults using the words "retarded" and "gay" (you know how I mean) in conversation, and I cringe when I hear it anywhere and said by anyone.
I understand pet peeves completely and everyone has a right to them, but I have to say that witnessing intolerance--rude and mean gestures and words between guests over small things--bothers me WAY more than anything else that might happen to me. Most people who do rude things don't mean to do so and correcting them will make them defensive (because they meant no ill-intent) and then everyone's day just gets grayer over the exchange. You have a right to do otherwise but witnessing that stuff makes me uncomfortable and sad when you could just assume the best of intentions and recognize it's a crowded place, everyone's limits and capabilities are different, and people are generally doing the best they can. People stopped short in front of me? Just got swept up in the moment, no harm intended. (is always my assumption.) Kid bumping into me with no input from parents? It happens. People going in front of me in line? Probably meeting up with family and not something I'm going to let worry me. And I assume that literally everyone I see getting a special accommodation needs it and is genuinely benefiting from it. Even that family of 10 with an
ECV that streams onto a bus before me? I know how much having a disability can impact everyone in a group and I will make no assumptions about what that family's day has been like. If you're taking advantage of the system then that's something you have to live with. As Louie CK says to his kid in that episode--the only time you should be checking to see whether someone got the same as you is to see if they've gotten enough. Do I get taken advantage of? I'm sure. But assuming the best of intentions of the people around me is part of the Disney experience for me. Not everyone has to feel that way, of course--I'm not saying anyone should--but my personal pet peeve is when I watch tempers flare over things where I can empathize and see how--it's very likely--that no harm or rudeness was intended.
I DO wish that people would be more considerate of people driving
ECVs and wheelchairs in crowds, though. Those people have an extremely hard time because if they leave any space at all to avoid hitting someone that space gets taken up in a crowd by kids or adults jumping in front.
Now if you go into detail with me about the great way that you gamed the system (at the expense of other guests)? I might not ream you out over it, because I'm not that confrontational, but I will kind of think you're the scum of the Earth. If you describe to me the way that you've taken advantage of Disney--eh, that doesn't really bother me as much, but I hope that Disney eventually closes whatever loophole you used.