So I got an anonymous letter yesterday...

[goopysolelady]

Wow!!

There could be a few reasons for someone doing this.


2 - A person is interested in your husband and she's really a whack job and wants to cause trouble.

3 - A male co-worker of your DH who does not like him and wants to start trouble.

Good luck figuring it out. That would really drive me nuts.

Totally agree with the above post. Sounds like you have a strong marriage and someone is just trying to create problems for you and your husband. My husband WAS in politics. His last election was brutal and you would not believe some of the things that were said about him. I can not tell you how angry I was and, being the gentlemen he is, he refused to allow me to "confront". He lost the election; not because of the things said about him but because his supporters "didn't even see the need to vote" (this was a local election and we're residents of a small town and county) since the man running against him is known as the "local town jerk". Voter apathy ... never good ... but cost DH his job with only 17% of eligible voters electing this man to office. I realize this in no way pertains to your problem but just know you're not alone in dealing with "gossip". Many of us have this problem tossed into our lives when all you/we want to do is live a quiet life and "take care of daily business". I like your DH's attitude...investigating the situation and you bet I'd have it dusted for fingerprints. Hang in there; OUR lives are much better now and as "stress free" as it can get...except for answering the phone calls from DH's former constituents begging him to run against this man again !

 

[Caskett616]

Totally agree with the above post. Sounds like you have a strong marriage and someone is just trying to create problems for you and your husband. My husband WAS in politics. His last election was brutal and you would not believe some of the things that were said about him. I can not tell you how angry I was and, being the gentlemen he is, he refused to allow me to "confront". He lost the election; not because of the things said about him but because his supporters "didn't even see the need to vote" (this was a local election and we're residents of a small town and county) since the man running against him is known as the "local town jerk". Voter apathy ... never good ... but cost DH his job with only 17% of eligible voters electing this man to office. I realize this in no way pertains to your problem but just know you're not alone in dealing with "gossip". Many of us have this problem tossed into our lives when all you/we want to do is live a quiet life and "take care of daily business". I like your DH's attitude...investigating the situation and you bet I'd have it dusted for fingerprints. Hang in there; OUR lives are much better now and as "stress free" as it can get...except for answering the phone calls from DH's former constituents begging him to run against this man again !

This thread was started almost 11 years ago.

 

[DawnM]

This thread was started almost 11 years ago.

But there was no closure! I need closure.

All these bumped threads with no results!

I need to know! Was there an affair? Did she get fingerprints?

I know many said they were still together, but I want to know who wrote the letter and why!

 

[tiggergal15]

I hate these ressurrected threads....it's annoying how old threads show up...

 

[rpb718]

No official closure - but the OP has posted as recently as Nov 2015. If you remember where she mentioned her DH being on a base, he has now been retired from the military and they have returned to WDW after a 6 year break - I believe staying at Shades of Green. I want to assume here that the DH of 6 years ago would be the same DH in this original thread from 2005 and that everything turned out well (except for the person who sent the original letter).

 

[DawnM]

No official closure - but the OP has posted as recently as Nov 2015. If you remember where she mentioned her DH being on a base, he has now been retired from the military and they have returned to WDW after a 6 year break - I believe staying at Shades of Green. I want to assume here that the DH of 6 years ago would be the same DH in this original thread from 2005 and that everything turned out well (except for the person who sent the original letter).

I saw that earlier in the thread.....but I want to know what happened with this particular incident!

 

[mdsouth]

Or you could install and adblocker...and never see them again.
These are generated by googleads

Good to know! I am clueless on a lot of the ways technology works.

 

[DoingDisney]

... necroed thread

 

[Magpie]

... necroed thread

So... why did you bump it back up, almost five days after the last post? (A post which, ironically, followed on from a discussion about how VERY old this thread is?)

 

[Hisgirl]

I've been around the block long enough to say that anyone can cheat. No one should be set aside as saying they 'would never do that'. That being said, it is great you trust your husband. However, I would probably still have pulled up the cell phone account and checked his calls. If there was one that kept coming up, especially early in the morning or late at night, I would look into this. Just a thought.

 

[Missy1961]

I've been around the block long enough to say that anyone can cheat. No one should be set aside as saying they 'would never do that'. That being said, it is great you trust your husband. However, I would probably still have pulled up the cell phone account and checked his calls. If there was one that kept coming up, especially early in the morning or late at night, I would look into this. Just a thought.

Go back and read the thread - it's old. Really old.

And I'm sorry that I responded since that will bump it up again.