We loved CBR...have never stayed at Swan or Dolphin, although the luxury aspect does appeal, but pocketbook says otherwise!

I found this information on another board so
thank you MNosky1.
(I hope I am allowed to post this here...if not, please delete)
"Disney hotel advantage
I didn't think I would but I do love being able to charge everything on one card. (YOu cna't do this at Swan/DOlphin either)
Disney themeing
Customer service
Fun pools and activities for kids
Gift shop!
Disadvantage - smallish hotel rooms, tough for napping, eating in room etc, one bathroom
Swan/Dolphin is nice and really is like a luxury hotel - much fancier than the Disney "deluxes", EXCEPT: no balconies on standad rooms, $10/day "resort fee" and $11/day parking at hotel (approx prices) (parking at other disney hotels and parks though are free if you stay at S/D). We use free spg hotel nights so it's no brainer for us. The luxury is nice and the location too but not Disney themed. The pool is vey nice. No magical express but service to all parks."
Could you do a split stay? That would give a you a taste of both worlds.