Unrelated, but... for my cruise last year to Europe, I ended up with an awesome roll call of other attendees. One of the people who signed up early was an older man named Foye. He was super-nice to me. He let me know when the cost of the cruise went down (saving us $1200 per couple!), he took an interest in me and kept in touch with me during my major knee surgery... and when we finally met, he and his wife were kind of like surrogate parents to me. I found it funny, as my parents were also there.
Unfortunately, he was both a heavy smoker and a heavy drinker (we NEVER saw him without either on the cruise). Three weeks ago, after his wife went to bed, he fell. He stayed conscious enough to get her for help, but that was it and he died yesterday.
I'm sort of numb. We were all on a fabulous cruise together in June. We kept in touch via Facebook. His wife had JUST retired, prior to our cruise, and they'd started their plan to travel everywhere, all the time. I'm devastated for her, but I am glad that they got a lot of traveling in, between June and the end of October... but it's never enough, is it?
And what am I going to do? My surrogate father and my cruise adviser is gone, too! I guess I'm just lucky that I had the pleasure to know him, if briefly, and share that amazing trip with so many other wonderful people.