Sorry you are

and sorry you'll miss homecoming. Maybe some one can youtube it for you? bummer
The drive is a toss up. TJ didn't start crying like crazy until the last two hours of the ride. The older kids aren't old enough to sit up front so I couldn't swap seats with one of them. The last hour was rough

and loud. DH would ask, what's wrong, and TJ would tap on the buckle of his seat.