Wow! So very much thanks to all of you for taking care and time to reply and so thoughtfully. I really appreciate it!
PlutoPony, cool username

, I think price-wise the Ford Fiesta would be more in line to where I was than the Focus. I will go to a Ford dealer and check out both. I did look up VW Golf and also thought it was cute. VW’s are also more expensive. I have looked at Edmunds a little and will need to more carefully.
Luvwinnie, is that a sporty car or just (to me) has a sporty name?

I am glad you enjoy yours!
Cabanafrau, thank you! I do know that what matters first and foremost is safety and reliability. When I sold my old Corolla the salesman explained to me that the reason cars today are made differently (more rounded and higher up) than my 1990 was indeed for safety! I have driven that car now since 2001 so it’s more of what I was used to type thing.

P.S. Just read your extra post and the mice, I take it were not Mickey and Minnie? If the car is sluggish that is not a good thing. The last week or so of my old car, especially when first driving it in the morning, it could be very sluggish and not happy about moving so definitely am after a much smoother and safer ride.
Tvguy, I am planning to look at the Fiesta, thanks.
Thanks, Gumbo 4X4. What is funny is when I first saw a Chevy Sonic at Carmax it was a bright red 2014. I later that day saw a silver 2016 at a Chevy dealer. I truly thought the red was smaller! Granted, I would ideally love a bright red car and so that could be why but seriously I did at Carmax try out a few similar vehicles and some of them did feel bigger or smaller so I know what you mean. I need to become familiar with the recalls that was something I never needed to be concerned about with my 26 year old car! I know my dad has a 2009 corolla that had many recalls on it.
I like your tree picture, ravenclawtrekkie, I haven’t yet gone to Toyota. I keep hearing that they and Hondas are for super reliability the way to go.
Piglet too, I’m so glad to hear that about your son’s sonic. What color is his?

I really loved the look of it and to me it was smaller than some of the others. The one I looked at a Carmax was used and had belonged to a smoker (it reeked of cigarettes) and that is a no for me. I think I mentioned this above but my first car was my Grandpa’s Chevy Nova. I really liked that car and so had good experiences with that Chevy.
Ahutton, those were both options too, especially the Versa. I’m not much of a car person but will be doing a lot of car shopping and reading up on next couple weeks, and it is interesting to look and test drive
Shutterbug, I did not know that about Chevy. I would prefer a smaller car. How does your brother like his sonic?
Xlxo, at carmax, they showed me that some of the cars had a back- up camera! I had never heard of that! My preference for smaller car in terms of parking is that the parking garage area to the building I live in is small and has narrow spaces. There’s also not a ton of maneuvering room. The bigger truth/reason is as I said I drove the 1990 Corolla for 15 years! I just got so used to that and the smaller shape and size. I wouldn’t be hauling anything really or having lots of cargo so don’t need a hatch for the extra space. I did think the sonic had lots of trunk space.
Thank you, lakelandgal70. I can be a visual person and so am going to try next few days to go in person see some cars (while still doing research) but that and also test driving them, which I have not done yet on any of them because my focus had been on making a decision on my old car, needs to come next and that way I’ll know what I feel comfortable with.
Thank you hug to everyone and I wish you a Blessed Monday
P.S. I pray I did not forget to say thank you to anyone!