Slightly frustrated...

[BabyTigger99]

DH is leaving today for three weeks over in Israel with the military, building dorms for an Air Force base. I was talking about it with my co-worker, who is also my cube-mate, yesterday, and she said that she can't believe that the military sends our troops overseas for "vacations" (Because, as she puts it, how much work can they actually do in three weeks?) instead of keeping them in the states. She also consistently calls the war in Iraq "another Vietnam" but that is neither here nor there. It's just been bothering me since she said it yesterday, since I know he is going to be working his behind off, and with the way the Middle East is, you never know what can happen over there. Sorry, just needed to vent....

 

[rasnlms]

Vent away - some people just don't get it...and never will.

My best to your DH.

 

[powellrj]

why don't people just keep their thoughts just that, THOUGHTS. Your DHs job is just as important as anyones who is over there and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. My DM had a lady tell her that my DS (her DGS) wasn't a REAL soldier because he was a medic. Hello, he is a medic assigned to a field artiliery unit. When they go out on missions they have to take a medic with them. I told her to get the ladies grandsons name and if Christopher runs across him to tell him, "sorry, I can't help you because I'm not a REAL SOLDIER , you'll just have to stay there and bleed to death until we can find one for you." You might ask her if she would like to go with him since its just a vacation. Sorry I got off on a little rant there.... By the way, your family is in my prayers.

 

[wendyl]

This one actually makes me angry--How dare your coworker say those things to you. I'm very sorry!! People amaze me.

Here's sending you some pixie dust and hopes that your DH is safe. We'll keep you company here on the Disboards until he returns!!

 

[shortbun]

your "cube mate" is insensitive. She should keep her
opinions to herself unless asked for them. I hope the
three weeks passes safely and quickly.

 

[luv2nascar]

I'd just mention it to her if you feel comfortable doing so
mention that it bothered you and you may be a little out of sorts or short tempered while he is gone
how can she be so insensitive - you have a lot on your mind
God bless you and your family

 

[Dan Murphy]

I think the average American, here at home, has not a clue as to what is really going on 'over there'. Or anywhere as far as that goes. Most speculate, often molded by the hypers in the media. Your hubby is doing a job, much appreciated, as are so many dedicated to improving the lot of so many. My best.

 

[CEDmom]

Wow, some people just really don't think before they speak. I hope your DH comes home safe and sound.

 

[Keli]

You have every reason to be frustrated with your co-worker. The woman is insensitive and quite frankly, absolutely wrong. Your dh will be working himself very hard, in a less than pleasant environment, have a measure of danger involved, and she thinks that's a vacation? Please, some people have no sense at all.

 

[jwsqrdplus2]

I'm sorry that you cubemate is so insensitve to your family's choice to serve. Unfortunately, you will not be able to change her mind. Know that your DH is doing a great service, and there are many of us who appreciate it!

A fellow military spouse (and Air National Guard member)

 

[Dizzy-Disney4]

Oh I know what you mean. My SIL's hubby was deployed back in February and I was telling my best friend how he sent an email saying how when they arrived they had a nice steak dinner. She was like...nice to know our taxes pay for them to eat steak!!! Oh she made me sooooooo mad. I was like yeah its horrible that they eat steak...you know its not like they are doing anything important . Not like he is separated from his family or will miss the birth of his first child. So now I don't mention it. I should have remembered how she was when my hubby was in.

 

[wishuponastarforever]

Prayers for your DH's speedy return.
It's obvious your coworker doesn't have anyone she cares about serving for our safety and future.
Thank you to you and your DH and to everyone else serving our country.

 

[piglet too]

Like the others have posted, some people just don't get it. Vent away whenever you feel like it, we will listen. I for one am thankful for what your husband is doing. Please know that I will keep him in my thoughts for his safe and speedy return.

 

[BabyTigger99]

What I really found puzzling about her comment was that her husband was in the Army National Guard for 12 years or so. I didn't think that another military wife would be so insensitive.

 

[Pin Wizard]

Where's that flame smilie???!!! Maybe she could live over there 6 months or so and then comment! Bless your husband and your family.

 

[two4ruff]

My husband leaves in 3 weeks for his one year "paid vacation".

Send her my way, I'll have a little chat with her about how it works

Maybe she would like to explain to my two kids how much fun daddy will be having...

Sorry, now I'm venting...

 

[Serena]

She's an idiot!

Thank you and your husband for doing all you are doing. I hope he comes home safe and sound.

 

[minniecarousel]

What is wrong with some people?!??! Ignore the witch!

 

[C.Ann]

Originally posted by BabyTigger99
DH is leaving today for three weeks over in Israel with the military, building dorms for an Air Force base. I was talking about it with my co-worker, who is also my cube-mate, yesterday, and she said that she can't believe that the military sends our troops overseas for "vacations" (Because, as she puts it, how much work can they actually do in three weeks?) instead of keeping them in the states. She also consistently calls the war in Iraq "another Vietnam" but that is neither here nor there. It's just been bothering me since she said it yesterday, since I know he is going to be working his behind off, and with the way the Middle East is, you never know what can happen over there. Sorry, just needed to vent....

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Tell her "fine - YOU can go in his place!!"

How insensitive!!

 

[isyne4u]

Originally posted by Dan Murphy
I think the average American, here at home, has not a clue as to what is really going on 'over there'. Or anywhere as far as that goes. Most speculate, often molded by the hypers in the media. Your hubby is doing a job, much appreciated, as are so many dedicated to improving the lot of so many. My best.

I sure hope this woman is not the "Average American"!! I think that the Average American feels the pain of the military families and the losses they endure on a daily basis! That woman was just a witch and needs to be told where to put her broom!

good luck to all the military personnel and their families!!

tara
virginia Beach, Va home to one of the largest naval facilities!!