Singles who are for the "Love of Disney" - Part 3

[Sha]

Well lookie here...hmmm???

Imagine that!

 

[black562]

I agree with Cinrell...
If the ring purely for an engagement, then she gives the ring back if things don't work out.
BUT, if the ring is given as a gift (Xmas, Bday, Valentine's, etc) then she should get to keep it.
Personally, I wouldn't want a ring as a GIFT, I would want it as an engagement (its own special occassion) and not on a holiday. I wouldn't want the guy to feel like, "well, it's your bday so I had to get you something...here you go-wanna get married?"

But even better is getting a Mickey ring and a proposal in front of the castle...THEN get the real ring a week later. Double the pleasure and double the fun!!!

One night I'm going to make a post of my fantasy wedding, which I've told Sha just a little here and there. Its not something I would do at this point, but it keeps my creative juices flowing...who knows, maybe my baby niece will do it.

 

[CinRell]

But even better is getting a Mickey ring and a proposal in front of the castle...THEN get the real ring a week later. Double the pleasure and double the fun!!!

One night I'm going to make a post of my fantasy wedding, which I've told Sha just a little here and there. Its not something I would do at this point, but it keeps my creative juices flowing...who knows, maybe my baby niece will do it.

Never say never.

You never know.. and if it happens I want to be on the guest list!

 

[tawasdave]

I'm starting to notice a trend of the guys getting the engagement ring back, wonder where I went wrong in that process?

Yea me too...I should have gotten it back...

 

[black562]

Never say never.

You never know.. and if it happens I want to be on the guest list!

I think the Dis folks would have their own section. But unless I struck it rich, it would be foolish to spend the money that my fantasy would require...as it would buy a heck of a house.

But either way, definitely a section for my Dis friends.

 

[tawasdave]

I agree with Cinrell...
If the ring purely for an engagement, then she gives the ring back if things don't work out.
BUT, if the ring is given as a gift (Xmas, Bday, Valentine's, etc) then she should get to keep it.
Personally, I wouldn't want a ring as a GIFT, I would want it as an engagement (its own special occassion) and not on a holiday. I wouldn't want the guy to feel like, "well, it's your bday so I had to get you something...here you go-wanna get married?"

Ya know...why aren't guys informed of these rules???

 

[sand2270]

Ya know...why aren't guys informed of these rules???

Yeah, I can't believe a woman would keep the ring in a broken engagement, I don't get that. If you are already married or if it was a gift than I agree that is different unless it is some kind of family heirloom or something.

 

[Ragnrok23]

Ya know...why aren't guys informed of these rules???

I was specificy told by my ex to NOT propose on any sort of holiday

 

[tawasdave]

I was specificy told by my ex to NOT propose on any sort of holiday

Now see.....that should have been a clue right there....

 

[black562]

I was specificy told by my ex to NOT propose on any sort of holiday

.

 

[CinRell]

Yeah, I can't believe a woman would keep the ring in a broken engagement, I don't get that. If you are already married or if it was a gift than I agree that is different unless it is some kind of family heirloom or something.

I didn't because I was angry.. but finding out that 3 months after he proposed he was sleeping with his coworker, looking back I wish I'd kept it and pawned it to pay off the bills i racked up fixing up HIS house.

 

[Sha]

Speaking of weddings and all. I have a message from a former poster of the original thread. Michelle (BigSis) has gotten married, 6 weeks ago. She wanted to pass on Congrats to Cait and Bob for their upcoming wedding!

 

[sand2270]

I didn't because I was angry.. but finding out that 3 months after he proposed he was sleeping with his coworker, looking back I wish I'd kept it and pawned it to pay off the bills i racked up fixing up HIS house.

Yeah, you know I don't want to judge anyone...I know every situation is different. I was thinking that after I made the post. Sounds like you are better off.

 

[Ragnrok23]

Yeah well, I should have specifically told mine not to cheat on any sort of holiday...or ever. Catching your wife cheating on Christmas Eve kinda puts a damper on the holiday festivities....JUUUUUST a tad.

I didn't because I was angry.. but finding out that 3 months after he proposed he was sleeping with his coworker, looking back I wish I'd kept it and pawned it to pay off the bills i racked up fixing up HIS house.

sorry to hear that

 

[katydidbug1]

Speaking of weddings and all. I have a message from a former poster of the original thread. Michelle (BigSis) has gotten married, 6 weeks ago. She wanted to pass on Congrats to Cait and Bob for their upcoming wedding!

Be sure to tell Michelle I said thanks and send our Congrats to her.

Well mother nature gave me a niceish day today, so I should be heading to my grandmothers to pack....I really really don't want too.....would rather make some popcorn and watch a movie. I really need to get motivated....LOL..I know I know the packing queen is so unmotivated...lol

 

[Sha]

Be sure to tell Michelle I said thanks and send our Congrats to her.

Well mother nature gave me a niceish day today, so I should be heading to my grandmothers to pack....I really really don't want too.....would rather make some popcorn and watch a movie. I really need to get motivated....LOL..I know I know the packing queen is so unmotivated...lol

I will do that!

Okay folks... we need happy thoughts here.

 

[sand2270]

I will do that!

Okay folks... we need happy thoughts here.

I know what a downer...lol...went from happy wedding thoughts to broken engagements and appropriate ring ownership.

 

[black562]

I will do that!

Okay folks... we need happy thoughts here.

Happy thoughts of happy weddings?

So I let Sha in on the song used in the first dance at my wedding, which I really hadn't told anyone.

Hey Sha, if you want to post the link to the song, go ahead, if you still have it handy. I think everyone here would approve of my choice. It may give someone else the idea to use it since its so perfect.

 

[Sha]

I know what a downer...lol...went from happy wedding thoughts to broken engagements and appropriate ring ownership.

So Cait... about that video feed...

 

[katydidbug1]

Lets see Happy thoughts

Dole Whips
Tea at the GF
Fireworks from the beach at the poly
Bob

How's that?