Singles Social Club: It's 5 o'clock somewhere!

[Offsides]

Nice change in the weather here today, nice and sunny. Just got back from a duathlon race, and though my time was slower than last year I won my age group. The rain from yesterday made it a bit muddy. Now at work for a bit to make up for tomorrow, going to take some time off to bring my son to a college upstate.

I'm jealous! It is actually snowing here, and we are supposed to get accumulation overnight.

 

[TexasDisneyBelle]

1. I really meant that, spent too much time in exact situations watching soccer, softball, and baseball and know what it feels like. And feel sorry for the kids playing with not as many layers.

Have a good day!

I know. I'm just teasing you.

 

[MICKEY88]

Actually, rereading your original text makes it sound like I have a rather large entourage of men that I know. . .while that is possible, not one of them is as of this moment relationship-worthy. . .but then again. . .neither am I. Guess if I want a relationship I need to be relationship worthy. . .lol.

actually re-reading my original post on this subject, it was a reply to ctnurse, so how did that make it about you in anyway ?????

I won't even touch the relationship worthy comment, other than what a great way to bash all of your male friends with one sentence

 

[nurse.darcy]

I did find a beautiful quote that is very fitting, from my cousin, which I stole from her status on fb.

never make someone a priority when they only make you an option. the end

Love the quote. . .I am stealing it and making it my FB status.

Darcy...I wish more women would be willing to admit they are not relationship-worthy before entering into a dating relationship. I have at times met women who after a couple of months of dating say they are not ready for a relationship. Luckily, none have been Disney .

CTnurse...I was up your way last week visiting my daughter. Visiting the small town that I used to live in, reminds me that I need to move to a smaller town than where I am currently living in the D.C. Area....like maybe a short drive to visit the Mouse.

Hey Dave. Thanks.

Nice change in the weather here today, nice and sunny. Just got back from a duathlon race, and though my time was slower than last year I won my age group. The rain from yesterday made it a bit muddy. Now at work for a bit to make up for tomorrow, going to take some time off to bring my son to a college upstate.

Have a good day!

Glad you got some sunshine for your race today. And congrats on winning your age bracket.

 

[nurse.darcy]

actually re-reading my original post on this subject, it was a reply to ctnurse, so how did that make it about you in anyway ?????

I won't even touch the relationship worthy comment, other than what a great way to bash all of your male friends with one sentence

Sorry that I touched a nerve with you today. And to all my male friends, if you took my comments as bashing you, I apologize.

 

[MICKEY88]

never make someone a priority when they only make you an option.

Wow, I haven't heard that since my best friend lost her battle with cancer in December.

she used to tell me that everytime we talked

 

[Disneyfan71]

So I've been reading the threads/posts. I do want to find someone that I can start talking to and just simply get to know. At this point, I know what I want but just haven't found it. If it feels right, then it feels right

 

[Madonna3]

So I've been reading the threads/posts. I do want to find someone that I can start talking to and just simply get to know. At this point, I know what I want but just haven't found it. If it feels right, then it feels right

Ah, but that's the trick, isn't it? When we "know" what we want then we sometimes make an unrealistic laundry list of expectations of potential partners. There's a difference between knowing what you want and what you expect in a relationship.

I can want him to be wealthy, but that doesn't mean he isn't a good provider. I expect to be somewhat provided for (ex. he can pay half the mortgage) in a relationship. But, what I want and what I expect are different. Make sense?

 

[Madonna3]

Completely off topic - But, I've noticed that the rent/trade board on here has died down as of recently. It seems as if the demand is outweighing the supply. However, I ventured on over to another point rent/trade board and they seem to have picked up. I've also noticed two new point brokers around coming in at $0.50 and $1.00 under the competition per point. With owners asking $10-$12 per point anyway, it almost makes sense to go through the broker even though the owner only gets $9.00.

The only reason I even bring it up is I am looking to rent points for my next week long trip and I am undecided about when I want to go let alone stay. Usually, I just run right to here, find a large supply, negotiate to the price I want to pay and I'm done. Seems as if the supply now justifies the price.

 

[LaLalovesWDW]

Wow, this thread is like my big behind tryin to play double dutch... everytime I think I can jump in, I get a cramp and don't get to play... LOL. Ok, I hope everyone's Sunday is going well. I am here on my 3rd weekend of unpaid overtime... yippee.

I am counting down until I can spend a relaxing child-free week at Disney, even going to get to meet up with the Northeast DIS Divas for an evening that I hope to have me in WDW jail.

Ok, so now that all the good topics are passed on by, let me just add about FB - I never thought of fb as a dating type site. I don't even understand how someone can confuse it, but the rare times when someone comes at me with something silly, I just unfriend and keep it moving. The one time I entertained someone with that, they began stalking every photo, every status update, everything...never again.

A couple people mentioned divorce (sorry my multi-quoting skills are wickity-wack) - being that my ex didn't have a damn thing, ours was easy. I went to completecase.com, paid my $300 sent him the paperwork to be notarized, filed with the court and we were done in a few months. Best investment ever.

In regards to men, its always been my philosophy that we teach them how to treat us... whether its a booty call, *************, serious dating, marriage, whatever... many times as women we don't really speak up when our needs arent being met. Many times we grow up believing that we are to take care of our men, make sure they have 3 hots and a cot, yet we are walking around miserable. Maybe this is why Im solo right now...LOL.

 

[Disneyfan71]

Ah, but that's the trick, isn't it? When we "know" what we want then we sometimes make an unrealistic laundry list of expectations of potential partners. There's a difference between knowing what you want and what you expect in a relationship.

I can want him to be wealthy, but that doesn't mean he isn't a good provider. I expect to be somewhat provided for (ex. he can pay half the mortgage) in a relationship. But, what I want and what I expect are different. Make sense?

Yes it makes perfect sense

 

[Floydian]

DisneydaveCT - Completely off topic, but just wanted to say hello! I spent a good part of my childhood in Fairfax (9-16 years old). Went to Robinson and lived near some old church that was a civil war landmark of some kind. Anyway, back to all of those other topics.

 

[ahoff]

I know. I'm just teasing you.

Yeah, I sort of figured that out

Completely off topic - But, I've noticed that the rent/trade board on here has died down as of recently. It seems as if the demand is outweighing the supply. However, I ventured on over to another point rent/trade board and they seem to have picked up. I've also noticed two new point brokers around coming in at $0.50 and $1.00 under the competition per point. With owners asking $10-$12 per point anyway, it almost makes sense to go through the broker even though the owner only gets $9.00.

The only reason I even bring it up is I am looking to rent points for my next week long trip and I am undecided about when I want to go let alone stay. Usually, I just run right to here, find a large supply, negotiate to the price I want to pay and I'm done. Seems as if the supply now justifies the price.

Sort of off of the off-topic, but there is a fellow co-worker who is in DVC. In fact, he got me interested in it. He owns at four resorts (BW, BC, WL,& AK) and has 500 points. But he goes so often (which is not a bad thing..) that he used to come to me and ask to buy some of my points. That was before I started to go so often. I only have 150, but it covers three trips a year, and I now have no extras.

In regards to men, its always been my philosophy that we teach them how to treat us... whether its a booty call, *************, serious dating, marriage, whatever... many times as women we don't really speak up when our needs arent being met.

Kind of reminds me of a scene from 'Chasing Amy' (anyone seen that film?) where a guy is saying how the woman need to give some direction. Of course he was referring to a specific kind of direction......

 

[sticks7107]

Hello Everyone!!!! I'm new to the boards, a micechat convert.

 

[DCTooTall]

See, you and the others should have never answered my question about multi-quoting. . .lol.

So now it's our fault?

Good luck with that...it seems to me that guys just want to play games and I am too old for that!

You are never too old for games.... it's just the games and rules change.

You aren't going to play the same games at 30 that you played at 15.

And now that I have mastered the multi quote function how does one quote only a part of a multi quote post?

Easy answer.... Delete the stuff between the QUOTE tags you don't want to reply too. You can also copy/paste the opening and closing tags around the sections you want to reply too if you want to do seperate responses to each section.... sort of like what I've done here.

I am done with the games that certain men play... They can't figure out what they want, didnt take the time to figure it out, and then think they can have very little communication for a few weeks then pop in for a few days like nothing is wrong, and then nothing. It is my own fault I listen to my heart instead of my head. Sorry for the rant! It just makes me upset that I subject myself to this

I did find a beautiful quote that is very fitting, from my cousin, which I stole from her status on fb.

never make someone a priority when they only make you an option. the end


I just find that I am upset with myself for my feelings,which I have no control over and said person made me feel that way!

I think that the invite to move into the convent with my PT that is a nun sounds better and better everyday.

I am very good at following rules. My heart only gets broken when I break the rules by not following them.

Ok sorry for the rant I'm just having a pity party.

Maybe I'm just being an emotional female?

Hello Everyone!!!! I'm new to the boards, a micechat convert.

to the DIS, and to the Singles Social club!

 

[CptJackSparrowsGirl]

Thought Series 6 premiers next weekend?

I own season 1 on DVD, season 5 and the Tennet specials on bluray, and I even own an old classic Tom Baker story on DVD.

I'm watching Trial of a Timelord now on DVD. I love me some classic who.

I'm more of a noob to the series. I didn't get hooked until like the end of the 2nd into the beginning of the 3rd on Scifi (Scratch that) SyFy lol.

 

[nurse.darcy]

So now it's our fault?

Of course it is. . .but you already knew that was going to be my answer. . .lol.

 

[Mandyjg20]

we should definitely set up a ren faire meet

I agree

 

[DCTooTall]

I'm more of a noob to the series. I didn't get hooked until like the end of the 2nd into the beginning of the 3rd on Scifi (Scratch that) SyFy lol.

I grew up watching the classic series on PBS. It didn't air until 10pm, but my dad would let me stay up past my bedtime on saturdays to watch it with him.

Of course it is. . .but you already knew that was going to be my answer. . .lol.

I guess I should be used to everything being my fault. somehow all my female friends always end up saying it's my fault since i'm a guy.

 

[Mandyjg20]

Ok I have to ask a question??? Why do totally random guys that I DON'T know send me messages on facebook to tell me that they like the way I look? It's FB not Match.com. Ok I'm done

I would say they are pervey.. or just really lonely weirdo men looking for a connection so they surf the find friends area and decide to comment on you