Singles Social Club: It's 5 o'clock somewhere!

[TexasDisneyBelle]

All is right with the world!!

Today is buy 1, get 1 free Big Macs.

I hardly ever eat fast food, so this is a treat for me!

If I'm giving in to the fast food craving, I'm going for the 1/4 pounder with cheese.

Have you tried the new sea salt fries at Wendy's? They are so good. Way better than the old ones IMO.

 

[Offsides]

Have you tried the new sea salt fries at Wendy's? They are so good. Way better than the old ones IMO.

One of my co-workers brought me some the other day. At first I said I didn't want any (I had just eaten lunch), but then I tried one and ended up eating all of them. They're really good!

 

[nurse.darcy]

I wish I knew the answer. I've been single for the better part of the last 6 years and can't figure out what I'm doing wrong.

I have had a couple of relationships over the last 8 years, even lived with one, but I am not really figuring this out either. Oh well. . .lol.

 

[NJDiva]

My reason is because I am not wanting the broken promises and everyone I tend to meet is all charm and sweetness at first and then they turn into monsters, i guess i am too trusting and naive at first

I wish I knew the answer. I've been single for the better part of the last 6 years and can't figure out what I'm doing wrong.

Ok but to the both of you, Mandy is done with the drama and broken promises and seems to think she's too trusting and our resident bartender seems to think it's something he did wrong.
Isn't the goal is to find someone that you CAN trust without drama without feeling everything that goes wrong is your fault?

If I'm giving in to the fast food craving, I'm going for the 1/4 pounder with cheese.

Have you tried the new sea salt fries at Wendy's? They are so good. Way better than the old ones IMO.

and yes.....I love them but they don't love me! they seem to want to add inches to my body

 

[Disneyfan71]

Nice guy here Hope everyone is doing good tonight.

 

[ctnurse]

Hang in there and have a great day.

Thanks after coffee,water, peanut butter crackers and advil I felt better.

If you need anyone to talk to I'm here too!

Thanks

All is right with the world!!

Today is buy 1, get 1 free Big Macs.

I hardly ever eat fast food, so this is a treat for me!

Eating one of my favorite things.

Im dieting right now for my trip to FL... but damn...

Good luck with that!

 

[DIS_MERI]

Ok but to the both of you, Mandy is done with the drama and broken promises and seems to think she's too trusting and our resident bartender seems to think it's something he did wrong.
Isn't the goal is to find someone that you CAN trust without drama without feeling everything that goes wrong is your fault?

I tried to find someone for a while after XH and I split and decided I was trying too hard. I went the opposite direction and stopped trying at all. I'm not having any more success than I had before but at least it is a lot less stressful

Seriously, though, I think if you have a "fixer" personality or tend to be a people pleaser it can be too easy to ignore what you really need/want. This can be especially true if they've been "mistreated" by their last SO. Sometimes after you get to know them, you begin to see the other side of the story....on another note, after not having *anyone* new (okay, male, single and new....) show up at my church in the almost 3 years since I got out of the Navy and moved back....we've had *2* show up in the last month! One had 4 kids from 2 divorces and got moved back out of state again after only visiting for 2 Sundays, and the one who came yesterday is only 24, but at least new guys are showing up

 

[LaLalovesWDW]

Why is there never anything to watch on Monday nights??

 

[Madonna3]

Im dieting right now for my trip to FL... but damn...

Diets normally fail because they imply a temporary change.

 

[Madonna3]

Why is there never anything to watch on Monday nights??

Because it's football's off-season

 

[LaLalovesWDW]

Diets normally fail because they imply a temporary change.

Right-o on that one... but after losing 200lbs over the last 10 years, I want to maintain where I am, so I have to lose these 20lbs now so I can gain them back at disney... my rear end is like the stock market and Im just trying to be a good broker...

 

[Madonna3]

lol!

 

[Disneyfan71]

Because it's football's off-season

Football season is near though

 

[Disneyfan71]

I tried to find someone for a while after XH and I split and decided I was trying too hard. I went the opposite direction and stopped trying at all. I'm not having any more success than I had before but at least it is a lot less stressful

Seriously, though, I think if you have a "fixer" personality or tend to be a people pleaser it can be too easy to ignore what you really need/want. This can be especially true if they've been "mistreated" by their last SO. Sometimes after you get to know them, you begin to see the other side of the story....on another note, after not having *anyone* new (okay, male, single and new....) show up at my church in the almost 3 years since I got out of the Navy and moved back....we've had *2* show up in the last month! One had 4 kids from 2 divorces and got moved back out of state again after only visiting for 2 Sundays, and the one who came yesterday is only 24, but at least new guys are showing up

Yeah I'm having that problem now. Been separated almost a year now and no luck. I've all but given up, honest I have. And I'm not really trying too hard either.

 

[ahoff]

All is right with the world!!

Today is buy 1, get 1 free Big Macs.

I hardly ever eat fast food, so this is a treat for me!

Not here in NY, which is probably a good thing.

Have you tried the new sea salt fries at Wendy's? They are so good. Way better than the old ones IMO.

Yes, they are good but I try to not eat that many of them.

I tried to find someone for a while after XH and I split and decided I was trying too hard. I went the opposite direction and stopped trying at all. I'm not having any more success than I had before but at least it is a lot less stressful

Seriously, though, I think if you have a "fixer" personality or tend to be a people pleaser it can be too easy to ignore what you really need/want. This can be especially true if they've been "mistreated" by their last SO. Sometimes after you get to know them, you begin to see the other side of the story....on another note, after not having *anyone* new (okay, male, single and new....) show up at my church in the almost 3 years since I got out of the Navy and moved back....we've had *2* show up in the last month! One had 4 kids from 2 divorces and got moved back out of state again after only visiting for 2 Sundays, and the one who came yesterday is only 24, but at least new guys are showing up

That's ok, not many new females show up at mine.

Why is there never anything to watch on Monday nights??

Don't really have an answer for that, I do not watch much on any night.

Had a nice day today, went upstate with son and ex to visit the school he will most likely go to next year. We all seemed to like it, it is SUNY Purchase, only 40 miles north of the city. And there is a brewery only 11 miles away, Captain Lawrence. Should be a nice bike ride when I go to visit.

 

[Madonna3]

Not here in NY, which is probably a good thing.

You should protest and revolt.

 

[ctnurse]

I tried to find someone for a while after XH and I split and decided I was trying too hard. I went the opposite direction and stopped trying at all. I'm not having any more success than I had before but at least it is a lot less stressful

Seriously, though, I think if you have a "fixer" personality or tend to be a people pleaser it can be too easy to ignore what you really need/want. This can be especially true if they've been "mistreated" by their last SO. Sometimes after you get to know them, you begin to see the other side of the story....on another note, after not having *anyone* new (okay, male, single and new....) show up at my church in the almost 3 years since I got out of the Navy and moved back....we've had *2* show up in the last month! One had 4 kids from 2 divorces and got moved back out of state again after only visiting for 2 Sundays, and the one who came yesterday is only 24, but at least new guys are showing up

24 is legal though

Why is there never anything to watch on Monday nights??

House is on tonight. I love him.

Right-o on that one... but after losing 200lbs over the last 10 years, I want to maintain where I am, so I have to lose these 20lbs now so I can gain them back at disney... my rear end is like the stock market and Im just trying to be a good broker...

Wow thats great. How did you do it?

 

[DIS_MERI]

Right-o on that one... but after losing 200lbs over the last 10 years, I want to maintain where I am, so I have to lose these 20lbs now so I can gain them back at disney... my rear end is like the stock market and Im just trying to be a good broker...

I don't tend to put on a lot of weight at once (except at Christmas), but I *love* Dr Pepper and the more stressed out I am, the more I drink, which tends to cause some weight creep. If I don't lose weight when I go to England and don't have access to Dr Pepper (we leave Friday!), I'll have to give it up when I get back For Christmas I have to follow your Disney routine and lose weight beforehand or it gets ugly (or, uncomfortable, I refuse to buy bigger clothes, so I have to stay in my current size ).

Yeah I'm having that problem now. Been separated almost a year now and no luck. I've all but given up, honest I have. And I'm not really trying too hard either.

From my track record, I'm bad enough at picking guys, I figure I'm better off waiting for my friend's to drag someone in for me, anyway. Sadly everyone ran out of brothers and cousins before I came back home

That's ok, not many new females show up at mine.

It's a nice change of pace to have them show up, lol. Especially since I'm only guy shopping at church

 

[DIS_MERI]

24 is legal though

Barely

I have a preference for someone old enough to have fathered my son, lol, although I ended up eating lunch in a group with him-my friend invited me over for lunch at her house (I go over at least once a month, known them for 25 years, but it was a spur of the moment invite), and unknowingly at the same time her DH was inviting the new guy to lunch so he wouldn't be alone after church. I tried to bow out, but they just invited another family to keep it from being awkward. Anyway, he seemed really nice. Another complication would be that he's 6'5" and I'm 5'1"

 

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Why is there never anything to watch on Monday nights??

There is lots to watch tonight! It's NHL playoff time!