"Shut-ins" Do you know that term?

[Imzadi]

Oh, I agree they are pronounced differently. That's why it's never occurred to me. I realize there are homographs and multiple meanings of words, but that's exactly why we often substitute other words to avoid confusion. This is definitely one of those words.

Me neither. You're right. It might not occur to someone, until they are in that position and then see that word written out as a description about them. I will be using a different word from now on too.

 

[snowwite]

Just a random memory--When I was a kid they'd talk about shut-ins at church. The pastor or sometimes volunteers would set aside some time each week to visit those who weren't able to leave their home to come to church. It's probably still a thing, to visit people who can't get around, but the term is probably no longer appropriate. Same with "Invalid." "He needs someone to take him to doctor appointments, he's an invalid."

So what's the 21st century term to describe these folks? Or is it even taboo to speak of them as a group? I was on another forum where (mostly older) guys were talking about how they like to stay close to home--or at home--as much as possible Made me think of the "shut-ins" I'm sorta voluntarily one

Yeah I went to a Methodist church and we used to take the alter flowers to shut ins and usually wound up staying for tea and a chat. We prefer to stay home. It’s just too peopley out there.