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[sunnyday123]

I am not going, however I hope you understand that I had so much adrenaline in my body that I would have run to texes if I could just to be there for them

I think you should stay in school. How old are these pregnant cousins? I also am intrigued as to how you can spell adrenaline correctly, but not Texas.

 

[lillygator]

I am not going, however I hope you understand that I had so much adrenaline in my body that I would have run to texes if I could just to be there for them

are you in college?

 

[dislaney]

Finish school -

 

[Liberty Belle]

If you can afford it and it would help them and not harm you, go for it. If not, then stay home and take care of yourself.

 

[Heidict]

What could you or would you do if you were there?

Even if it's helping with the newborns, you can't do that for longer than the summer, so it's probably just as well to let your family figure it out on their own.

Just out of curiosity, do you use Firefox when you're on-line? If you don't, you should download it from Mozilla and give it a whirl. Obviously, you're spelling challenged. Firefox has spell check built into it. It underlines any misspelled words in red. When you double-click on the red-lined words, it will give you possible choices for correct spellings.

I find this feature very easy to use and helpful. You should try it sometime.

I just finally got wise and downloaded firefox a couple of weeks ago and I love it. Now I know when I'm spelling something wrong and go fix it immediately.

Glad to hear you aren't going. Really, there is nothing you can do. The situation is what it is and you being there is not going to make those girls suddenly un-pregnant.

Concentrate on your studies.

 

[brittanyherndon]

Found the perfect solution I have been there for them by giving my suport by sending text messages to them, and that is how I have been keeping up with what is going on.

 

[Amy&Dan]

It sounds like you made the right choice and found the way to support them without not supporting yourself and your education.

I think many of us can relate to having family members who are hurting one way or the other and hoping to be able to help them. But in the end, sometimes the best way to help someone is to let them deal with their own stuff.

In the end, if you have to ask, the answer is generally "no" you should not rush to help!

I hope it all works out, you sound like a very caring person and that's never a bad thing! Unless caring for others entails not caring for yourself.

 

[bgirldeb]

Another vote to stay in skool.

 

[Liberty Belle]

Found the perfect solution I have been there for them by giving my suport by sending text messages to them, and that is how I have been keeping up with what is going on.

Sounds great!

 

[DVCJones]

I think it is clear you should stay in school.

Let your aunt deal with the cousins. You can listen to her and let her vent over the phone. You are sweet to want to help tho.

I agree!!!

 

[minkydog]

I am not going, however I hope you understand that I had so much adrenaline in my body that I would have run to texes if I could just to be there for them

And what exactly do you think you can do for two cousins who are pregnant? Last time I checked pregnancy wasn't a disability. Your aunt may be "losing her mind" but she's get over it. I don't see how ditching school for this drama would be of benefit to you. I get that you support your family, but it doen'st sound like they need support. Birth control maybe