Even for those who feel that way (I'm not convinced that we have to use items to prove our love), it's different with china, though. Some people feel that china is "special" and needs to be used on a special occasion. And in the OP's case, she hasn't felt that that is possible, since there aren't enough settings for the people she has on the special occasions. That's why all of the ideas here are helpful, because they show all the fun ways you can use fancy dishes!
I have my china very available, but we still don't use it as much as I'd like, because DH is the dish-washer here, and he balks at hand-washing and is very afraid of breaking anything, especially my mom's china. So we love it and love using it, but the realities of using it keep us from using it as often as we'd like.
Not using something in 8 years, I don't consider that not using something often, I consider that not using something, at all.
The OP asked, I answered different than 99% of the posters, I certainly don't expect the OP to do anything I say.
