My husband's 40th birthday is in July and we are headed to Disneyworld. I invited his younger brother, his wife and two girls to come as well and my MIL and FIL are coming. His older brother lives in Orlando and his two girls will be with him. I'm a flight attendant so I am giving his younger brother's family free airline passes and my MIL and FIL are airline people as well so they are flying for free. They will all be paying for their expenses otherwise (hotels, park tickets, etc.). What I'm wondering is should I buy dinner for everyone the night we surprise my husband? I don't know if they are all renting cars so I should probably pick a hotel in DD or at their hotel (the Dolphin). It looks like the per plate prices are pretty high in any of the sit down restaurants so I could be looking at a $400-$600 dinner bill.
What is appropriate? Should I be paying for dinner or would that not be expected?
Thanks for your input!