A week at BWVs in early June, followed by 3 nights at POR. Only one issue with MBs....something happened when we switched resorts. It was a new CM, so possibly something was done incorrectly. But it was fixed quickly at MK. Buses were fine. Not once did we have to stand on an early bus from BWV to a park. And when going to the MK, we never, not. Once, stopped at the YC/BC. It was BW, then the S/D. When going to AK and DTD, the buses sometimes went to YC/BC, but not always.
The only huge issue was when we tried to get to OKW for an ADR, from BW. Took the bus to DTD...only waited 15 or so minutes. Had a little hold up when we for there...bus had a problem navigating a very narrow area. Off the bus and over to the boat. Well.....seems there was too much wind so the goats weren't running! I didn't notice any wind, vit who knows. So now we have to head to then to the bus stop. Should have just stayed at the Marketplace bus stop to begin with...and not headed to PI! But, there we stood, waited 30 mins for a bus to OKW! What should have taken 45 mins, took us 90 mins! Good thing I had time to spare! Got to the ADR at the exact ADR time!
Others than that, buses were fine. The buses at BW were no worse than the buses at POR.
I am not a 'Disney can do no wrong' people. I'm really not. But, I have had very few less than wonderful CM experiences in the past few years. I really don't think customer service has deteriorated at WDW. Of course, I've only been going since '99! Is it perfect? Hardly. I can't imagine the challenges some families face when traveling with challenged family members. There but for the grace of God go I. But....you have to let a CM know what you need. Everyone has different needs and CMs aren't mind readers.
I spent 7 nights at ASMusic and AoA last June, a week at BWVs in early Sept, 5 nights in mid-Nov at the Dolphin, 7 nights at SSR in early Dec, 1 night at Pop in late Jan, and finally 7 nights at BWVs and 3 nights at POR in early June. I've had only two issues with MBs. No issues with the buses...if you accept that they are basically mass transit, you'll be fine, otherwise renting a car is your best bet. No issues with
MDE or FP+. None disappeared. When SDMT was down, we were told to return at any rime that day, no replacement FP+ was needed. Same with Space Mt. The only FP+ frustration we had was when the afternoon parade was cancelled...we had used a FP+ for a great viewing spot....we were told to just choose another FP+. Unfortunately, by 3pm not much was available. It would have been nice to be offered a replacement FP+ for the parade for another day...but that wasn't an option.
We did find that we found ourselves doing attractions that we had FP+s for...maybe one or two standby, but no more than that. It was hot, ridiculously humid, and very crowded...so we left the park after doing what we wanted to do. We did less than we normally so. Not sure what the reason was though.
To address some of e OP's issues.....always go to the front desk at the resort. Don't just call...that isn't going to help...stupid call center! While not a rude, or impatient, I think I would have politely asked if I could pay for my water. It's rude to keep a customer standing there, while basically just chatting to someone else. And pin trading isn't a monetary thing....the VM should have just said 'let me get theses guests rung up. Then we can continue. Thanks so much'. That would have made sense.
I guess no two people will always see eye to eye on the same issue, or experience. But, there is usually some common ground. And there is always room for improvement when it comes to customer service....especially when it's Disney! That's supposed to be their big thing....stellar customer service! And while its not awful, it's certainly not 'stellar' lately. It's good, but it should be more than just good.