I don't know why they wouldn't accept it. Most hotels do this, don't they?
Address is: Grand Californian Hotel, 1600 South Disneyland Drive, Anaheim, CA 92802
I'd call the guest services desk there (714) 635-2300 and ask them how to mark it; I'm guessing "Please hold for guest Jones arriving 7/14/08" or whatever.
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