bumbershoot
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I think this whole renter crisis is INSANE! Can you imagine living in a house, paying faithfully and then BOOM, you're out of a house. People where I live would be devastated. Rental properties are at a premium here. We don't have apartment complexes and it's so hard to find a house to rent.
I didn't experience it first hand, but it is terrifying.
My MIL and FIL went in on a whole duplex with my BIL and his partner. Because FIL had been through a bankruptcy and MIL didn't work, and b/c BIL had been in bankruptcy as well, his partner was the one who got the mortgage. And then he was living in some weird world where he wasn't telling BIL how much he made and he was overspending and blah blah blah, BIL borrowed a big sum of money from MIL and then the partner borrowed a bunch of money from her. On top of that, she had put down a HUGE amount for the downpayment, and then they of course paid rent.
They didn't know BIL's partner wasn't paying rent, for almost a year, until the new owners came to the house to try to figure out who exactly was living in the house.
It was horrifying. Since they were family, they had no contracts. Actually, we had rented BIL and his old condo, and it was their utter refusal to write a contract (was supposed to be lease-to-own) solidifying terms and conditions that caused me to insist we leave at the end of that year.
MIL lost the money the partner borrowed, forgave what her son borrowed (he went into day-trading with that money so it was GONE anyway), and lost, forever, the 50K downpayment she had made.
They thought this place was where they would be forever. MIL is Korean and BIL is the oldest son, and in that culture the oldest son takes care of the parents, so it was natural for them to think that that was the situation.
They actually found out about it a week or two after the partner packed up and took all the stuff in his name (the ONE convenient thing for BIL and the lack of legal gay marriage in WA is that his ex's creditors couldn't come after him for his debts!) and left the state, leaving the situation and my BIL in one fell swoop. Awful awful awful.
I see no reason why a bank should be obligated to terms of a contract to which they were not a party.
Renter has a contract with owner...has nothing to do with contract between owner and bank, right? So why should a renter, solid in their contract with the owner, be kicked out before lease end when they have done nothing wrong, right?
That said, a renter should be aware that this can happen. We had sort of ignored it until a couple months ago when our condo-owner came to us to tell us she wanted to sell all her properties. She's a great landlady and we HATED that she is thinking that way! But the price she's going to put on this place (after our lease ends) is almost twice as much as 3 recently sold or on the market condos in the building have gone for. And the more expensive of the 3 still hasn't sold since June. So I don't think we have much to worry about, since she's being absolutely unrealistic (and this was a couple months ago). But it does mean we'll have to find Yet Another Place to live, when we thought we could settle down with our fave landlady's place for a couple years!
