every Friday Night we have "Family night". This is a time to unwind from the hard week. We have something easy to eat (usually finger foods)or order out, and use paper plates(so limited mess).
We take turns picking a kid friendly movie from our DVD collecetion(mostly Disney). No one is allowed to "suggest" a movie to the movie selector, and no complaining of the movie picked by anyone. This is a challenge with DS11, DD9, and DS3. And sometimes we will play a board game, cards, etc.
DS11 and DD9 have been known to forgo a sleepover if it interfers with "Family Night". Even DS3 gets excited when it is his turn to pick.
Now with the holidays, they are limited to Christmas movies.....