
I understand how difficult this trip feels for you right now but I'm sure the trip will be filled with many magical moments and will be exactly what you and the girls need.
In December 2009 my youngest Emma had pneumonia. My son Joe was diagnosed as well but not quite so bad-he bounced back very quickly after antibiotics. I too was sick and after working on Friday 12/11/09 I had decided if I wasn't better by Monday I would call a doctor. That Friday night my brother Joe (my son's was named after him) was struck and killed by a car walking to work. My Dad had passed 12/12/67 when I was 6 so Joe was like a Dad to me. He gave me away at my wedding and was the Godfather to my 3 children. I didn't go to the doctor that Monday and honestly don't know how I got through the next few weeks or Christmas.
After Christmas I still felt sort of numb. I had a trip planned with Emma in January for her 7th birthday and really wasn't up for it at all. About 10 days before the trip I went to the doctor. I had whooping cough. After being on the antibiotcs a day or so I realized just how sick I had been. I was feeling a better but still not up for the trip. I had already taken Joe and my oldest for their 7th birthdays so not going really wasn't an option. I figured even if I wasn't up for leaving the hotel Emma would still have a good time-she still wasn't quite 100% after her pneumonia. As it turned out once we got there the magic did kick in. I felt so much better there and we really do both have some very magic memories from that trip-the Dug photo I sent you is from that trip. I actually don't know how/when I would have "recovered" enough to be functional if it hadn't been for that trip.
This May trip is Emma's first one on one trip with me since then. We are both so looking forward to making more memories together.
I'm sure you and girls will have a very magical trip.
Continued prayers for your family.
Thank you so much for sharing this story with me, it truly makes me feel better that no matter how guilty I feel for taking this trip right now - it might be exactly what we need.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your brother, I am so glad that you and your dd were able to spend some much needed time at WDW & it made you feel better.
Thank you for all of your prayers.

Sending more prayers for Rufus.
The Mickey Pirate shirt is just adorable
Thank you Michelle.
thank you for sharing stories about Rufus! he truly is a much loved pup!!!
Yes we do love him very much.
This made me both smile and tear up as I visualized Ruf smiling, wagging his tail, being petted, going everywhere with you and being loved by one and all. The love you have for him is evident in everything you post. I need to go give my furry girls some hugs now.
I know, maybe every animal is this way? I dunno - Ruf is my first real dog - so it's truly a unique experience for me.
Oh fried - you do NOT need to apologize!!! I never managed to get on the computer long enough to be able to get to the DIS (our internet was/is all wonky).
Thanks Marianne... I just felt horrible for neglecting you.
so cute D!!!! what a creative outfit!!
Thanks Lisa!
Those are amazing cute! Love them!
Thanks Tink!
There you go
I LOVE

the "hideous" capris!!!! They're FABULOUS!!!!! You and the girls are going to ROCK WDW!
Thanks for posting your pic - pay no attention to
Andrea below. Besides - I am the one who is keeping her PTR going, it'll probably sink into oblivion while I am at WDW because she never bothers to post anything in it.
I love both V and A's pirate outfits. Of course yours is fantastic too and I think Bermuda shorts are better than capris.
So cute about Rufus and his BBQ. My dog loved spaghetti and our female cat loved ramen noodles.
Thanks! Actually, Ruf used to eat ANYTHING... He was such a garbage disposal. That is one of the reasons I think that this is just a horrible way for him to go. LOL about your dog loving spaghetti and your cat loving Ramen.
Those are so cute! I absolutely love them. Are you all doing a pirate cruise or just having a pirate dress up day? What would be really cute is to model your outfits now and get a pic in them with Rufus wearing a bandana. I think that would be adorable.
No, we aren't doing anything fun for our pirate day - I really wanted to do Pirate League, but I just don't think that it's financially in the cards for us this time. It would have been a lot of fun!
That is an excellent idea about the picture... I will possibly try doing that this afternoon, I will have to see how chipper Ruf is... He has been so tired, and I am doing my best not to annoy him with anything else, since he is being smothered by love at the moment.
Speaking of Rufus, I hope he has a good day. Spaghetti sounds yummy. I bet he'd prefer a steak though.
Yes, he does enjoy steak... So do I - LOL
What are you doing hogging my ptr and posting pics here?
Some one needs to...
Rufus update:
Our guy is still with us. He seems to be hanging in there fairly well. He still doesn't seem to be in too much pain. He does get up and walk around - but steps are getting worse and worse for him - he hasn't been upstairs since cuddling with Josh the other night, and he can barely get up the porch steps when he comes back in from going outside. I spoon fed him some icecream last night - I had a cupcake in there too (a little one) but he didn't like that. He enjoyed the icecream though.

When Josh and I got up this morning, his breathing was really shallow, so I was very worried. But he just got out of his bed a few minutes ago and drank some water, now he is laying by me in the office. I am a bit concerned because I have to work all day today, and so does Josh - so Ruf will be home alone all day. If he was showing major signs of pain/or that he was near to death - I would stay home - but he seems fine (well, as fine as can be anyways), so I will go to work, and pray that he is OK today.
Trip update:
First of all - I am happy to announce that I sold my Rosetta and matching large wallet that's been in my Etsy store for a long time - that was a nice surprise and perfect timing, as that will be my only souvenir $$ for our trip. So, if it happened to be a Diser that purchased it (didn't recognize the name) - Thank you.

It wasn't a lot of $$, but it certainly helped out a lot.
Secondly - with all of these vet bills over the last few weeks - it has very nearly wiped out our emergency fund. I was nearly hyperventilating when I logged into our bank acct yesterday, and I'd forgotten about a check I'd written for a Dr. bill last month... I was going to have to pull $$ out of a different acct to cover it, and that would have wiped us out completely. Then I noticed that Josh had been reimbursed for something with his VA status - so all is right in the world. I was able to put $$ into our checking to cover the last vet bill, and I was able to replace most of the $$ in savings + I now have enough to cover the cash I need to pull for our trip. It was such a blessing to recieve that unexpected $$. I know there are so many others out there who are having a very rough time, and we were lucky this time. We really were not expecting all of these vet bills, and they are soooo expensive. I've already determined that we need to start a vet emergency fund, because this was insane. Sorry to bore you with financial stuff - but I was really starting to freak out about where the last little bit of $$ was going to come from for things like tips and airport food - which isn't a lot - but it adds up and it's necessary.
I refigured all of our tips/cash spending $$ that we need, and I made a little cheat sheet to put into my Mini-planner, so that I know how much I have alotted for tips for each meal and I don't overspend what I have with us. I plan to print that off today, and my Mini-Planner should be complete.
I have Allson's Dug wallet all cut out, I now need to decide what applique I am going to do. I plan to work on that this weekend. If I complete that in time (which I think I will) - I will see if I have enough time to do something else. The pirate outfits went much quicker than I thought they would - so I might still have time to do the Toy Story bag - but I really doubt it. I do have it ready to go, just in case.
Please continue to keep Ruf in your prayers.
D~