The whole not knowing what he’s saying or doing only happens after he’s been asleep and wakes up again after sleeping for about an hour or less. It’s always when he wakes up and has to go to the bathroom. Again this doesn’t happen all the time but happens more frequently than the puking. It only happens when he forgets to go to the bathroom before bed.
The thing that I’ve been noticing more often is the free talking and mood swings. It’s gotten to the point where I dread weekends because that’s when I notice it most. He’ll come home from work on Friday and talk nonstop. Normally he’s a quieter guy and he says that’s because I talk so much (which I’ve been working on because I really do talk too much). He’ll get all lovey and then when he notices I’m annoyed and don’t respond he’ll say “fine I just won’t talk” and gets pouty. This literally happens like every weekend now. It’s like he’s a child. When he gets this way I just try to force him to go to bed.
I had posted earlier, but I hadn't really read this, above...
Two things here really jump out at me.
I am not buying the 'forgets to go to the bathroom' thing as any kind of normal situation or behavior.
Many people have to get up at night to go to the bathroom (think about pregnant women!!!)
There are such things as sleep disorders and sleep-walking. But this does not sound like what is going on, to me. And, it has not been mentioned that there has been any further testing or sleep specialist.
I hate to even post this, but I will go out on a limb, and I would go and search the bathroom(s) in a way that no bathroom has ever been searched.
The second thing that jumps out at me, and truly concerns me, are those last words quoted above. "try to force him to go to bed". That is just not a normal or positive or functional dynamic. Not at all. This seems like their might be some heavier relationship issues here than you might realize.
I am also curious about the 'chatty-annoying-lovey' thing....
I have seen those who just run their mouth, talk more loudly, etc... when drinking.
Usually, that is followed by becoming like sleepy and just kind of passing out in a way. Alcohol is like a type of sedative.
If this is followed by mood swings and becoming angry, etc... That would indicate a problem.
I would suspect that alcohol is not the only issue.
There could be other mental/neurological issues.
There could be issues with other substances.
And, the personal relationship issues as well.
The four ingredients above are not a recipe for success.
I think that this is a very complex situation that can't really be addressed on a chat board.
The end-game is that he (and you as well) need to admit that there are some serious problems, and take very real steps and changes.