Well, it took me a long time, but I read it. You did a great job with this TR! You have a very handsome/beautiful family. Your boys are too cute. I can relate to alot of your situations. 1st- haha about your sons fear on Splash Mtn. My daughter did the exact same thing. She kept panicing and asking if "this" is the drop, is THIS the drop, on and on. Whining & her tone was horrified. Telling us the whole time she is NEVER going on this "stupid" ride again. Then at the bottom...."that wasn't so bad". She said she was willing to go on again someday and she did once more, but now refuses. Like you say try it, if you don't like it you don't have to go on again. That is our rule too.
I can also relate to the melt down. We had one once. Then we decided if we get up early we go back for swim & nap. We also agree doing ADR consumes alot of your valuable vacation time, not to mention puts more stress. .. can we do this, will we make our ADR, ... hurry up we're going to be late for our ADRs, etc. I truly believe little ones get overstimulated, then add sleep deprivation, unfamiliar beds, it is a recipe for a good old fashion melt down. (honestly, I've been known to have one here or there myself. I just don't yell any more.).
Your photos are beautiful.
Oh, and thanks for the tip on the Jedi training, I didn't know about this, or I may just have forgotten. Our youngest is a girl, but with a Dad who loves Star Wars, she may be interested in this. Do they have it all year or only around Star Wars w/e time frame?