This thread has made me sit back and reflect....while my preference is a tropical setting, I do need to look at what I DO have in my life/place I live. MY DB AND SIL! They are my best friends and home is where they are, however , they'll probably move in the next few years-- Safety, plenty of entertainment/recreation in Chicago(I can't afford to take advantage of it routinely , but that's not the areas fault

) my CUBBIES! 2 major airports for those necessary get aways, great public transportation, overall good schools, (however our $6,000 taxes are the reason why) every store you can think of is within a 10 minute drive, traditionaly jobs were always available, great hospitals and culture....however, I am not one to have reached my final days and have only lived in one place. I think that will be a major regret. I do have to keep in mind tho that this is my kids "home" and even tho I feel like this is just temporary(ummmm, It's been 41 years now

) it is not quite fair for me to uproot them over selfish reasons.DD is just like me tho...now she begs DH daily to move to FL and she plans on attending college there. I am horrible to live with in the winter tho, and I will never make the mistake of living in a home where the kitchen/family room face north again. Illinois is grey enough w/out the ability to havethe few sunny days we do have shine into the house. I do not like mosquitoes ...so even Florida would have a negative...hmmm, maybe AZ? I love the ocean too much tho. It really is a $$$/time thing in our case, I could enjoy where I am at more if I knew I could get to Fl 3 times a year and enjoy it as well.Also I do appreciate Chicago more now that the kids are older, my Dad didn't care for the city much so I was not exposed to all it had to offer until I was on my own. Now I love it! I could easily live somewhere else and spend a weeks vacation in Chicago, as the summer is when it's most beautiful anyway.
Oh I don't know...I am restless....I am truly happiest when I am in Fl, cry every time I have to leave it to come back here, yet I never cry when leaving Il to go somewhere else...I guess that sums it up for me.
Pam