Cancelled my DxDP and downgraded to the DDP.

I'm sad about it and dh and I are major foodies and were soooo looking forward to all the yummy looking food at the World but I'm really worried that we won't be able to enjoy dining with our four kids. They're 3, 4, 7 & 9, but the 3 yr old (who will just barely be 3 by the time we go) is seriously one of the most crazy hyper kids I've ever encountered in my life! (And I've worked at a daycare and run a dayhome for many years). He has a really hard time sitting still, so we thought it would probably be best to cancel and put less stress on everyone! So now I'm trying to figure out which ressies to keep and which to cancel. I'm leaning towards making things simple as possible for ourselves and trying to dine at places in or very close to the parks or our resort. The more I think about it, the more I think it will be stressful and annoying to be taking buses to and from other resorts just for a meal. It might be something to save and look forward to when the kids are older and can manage to sit at a restaurant for 2 hours without me feeling like I want to hide under the table.
Here's what I had, my thoughts are in red on what to save/cancel:
21 - Arrival day
No ressies as I'm not sure when we'll be getting in, probably not til 7ish so we might just take boat across to DTD and get some EOS!
22- AK
8:10 am - Tusker House
keep, love breakfast anyways and handy to get in early and be close to kilamanjaro
5:05 pm - Boma
Might cancel as bit of a pain to have to travel to get there
23 - BB or TL
Not sure which one to go to?
6:25 pm - Turf Club (we're staying at SSR)
keep
24 - MK
8:05 am - Crystal Palace
Keep, it will be magical to be in park early
5:35 pm - CRT
MUST keep, I have a 7 yr old who thinks she's a princess!
25 - EP
8:05 am - Akershus
Cancel
1:00 pm - Teppan Edo
Cancel
6:25 pm - Biergarten
Keep! (I'm German)
26 - DTD/resort day
11:30 am - TREX
Keep
5:00 pm - Hoop De Doo
Cancel. Pain to travel and I don't know how well my youngest will take it since there's so much noise and stimulation for a long period of time.
27 - MK
8:05 am - Crystal Palace
Cancel since we'll have already been.
5:00 pm - Ohana
Keep. Come on. It's Ohana!
28 - DHS
8:05 am - Hollywood and Vine
Cancel? I heard this isn't very good compared to other character breakfasts. Thoughts?
1:40 pm - 50's Primetime
Keep, I think. Food looks yummy!
29 - EP
11:30 am - Via Napoli
Keep. LOVE pizza and Le Cellier will be worth 2 so it's prob the smarter thing to do.
4:40 pm - Le Cellier
Cancel.
Was looking forward to try the soup and the famous filet and risotto.
30 - MK
7:45 am - Chef Mickey's
Cancel. Heard character interaction is rushed anyways.
12:50 pm - The Plaza
Keep. If we have a credit for it, great. If not, we'll pay OOP since it's one of the cheaper TS anyways.
5:40 pm - Narcoossees
Cancel. Pain to travel and a bit nervous about taking tired unruly kids to a signature.
So? What do you think? Agree? (This will be our first trip so I welcome the advice!)
It's getting closer and I'm starting to feel that panicky feeling once in awhile because I haven't done up our packing list, still need to get youngest one some new sandals, plus pick up extras like toys for in long lines, mist fans, adult ponchos, etc. Plus I have to get school shopping done soon before stores go crazy next month!