As usual, my friend, you hit the ole nail on the head (ouch

)...yes, yes, a Cockeyed Optimist suits me far better. Thank ye!
I'm glad your gs came by - even if it was for $, you got things done and saw them for a bit..and that description you gave is more from a positive thinker than pessimist.

Besides, I prefer to think of us as realists.

I am a realist, but one who does not give up on dreams or miracles.(ring a bell??

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So, what does the day hold? I'm a beached whale, playing on line...though I did have some sad news Friday.
Did I mention that I found a cousin on FB? I've lost contact with all of my family (most of whom live in Chicagoland), so thought I'd try FB..ta da! My cousin closest in age by a few years popped up...thought she would. She's a PHD and more likely to have interesting connections (like we do!)
Did not hear back for several days...then Friday rec'd a FB message saying how ironic I should write this week..my dear Aunt, her mother, passed last Tuesday and the funeral was Friday. I saw my family a couple of times a yr as a kid, but as an adult, very rarely; Last time was at my mother's tiny funeral in Nov, 2002.
Anyhoo - this Aunt was one I saw most as a child/teen. She was a wonderful woman ~ My Uncle Pat's wife (my mother was very close to her 2 baby brothers...adored them... and aunt Therese was married to James Patrick). Aunt Therese bore 7 children in not too many years...she had a smile on her face, a dance in her step and a martini in her hand most times (not as she got older). This woman loved us all unconditionally.
So, Kris, thank you for nudging me to join FB!