drummerwife
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Welcome Janice! Secrets like this are fun, and there are creative ways to keep it a secret. Our Magic Cruise of just a few weeks ago, was a surprise for my two boys, and we kept it a secret for almost a full year! They knew we were taking their Nana to New Jersey to visit her sister, and that we'd then go tour Washington for a day, but that was all. I got around being able to mention cruise stuff, by talking of a fictional cruise off in the future, telling them we'd cruise again maybe in another couple of years. Then in Washington, they had clue cards at each point of interest to deciper the cipher puzzel they were given at the beginning, and then GPS coordinates to my friends house just outside Washington, where they found a letter from Mickey telling them the BIG SURPRISE! It was fun to plan, even if their reaction was quite subdued! LOL (the youngest was sound asleep when we arrived, and he's not always in a good mood when being awoken from a deep sleep, and on top of that, we had a FAN club waiting for us there, and boys are somewhat very shy at times. This was a time where their shyness made an appearance, so although my 13 year old told me later, he was bursting with excitment on the inside, he just couldn't show that on the outside in front of a bunch of strangers to him (my friend, and her DH and their kids, and another family that was cruising with us). It was Awesome though!
Your son, I'm sure will be GREATLY surprised no matter when he finds out. Do you have a plan yet as to how you'll break the surprise to him? (if it helps, I can do up a graphic I created, with Mickey standing in front of the ship holding open a scroll. The scroll is addressed to the child/person, and reveals the surprise).![]()
Thanks for the welcome and the offer to help me break the surprise TJ. DH and I have given much thought on this subject. Our son has Aspergers and does NOT do well with surprises when he finds out at the last minute ie: we're leaving tomorrow even when it is something he really wants.
He IS ok with them when he has enough time to get used to the idea.
and all of the references have been about that one, as well as the 9nts we'll be at CSR after this cruise
Well I gotta run...DS piano recital is this afternoon. Thanks again for the welcome



to say the least!!! Then DW says all of the garland that was put on the tree with great care and
has to be taken off and put on the tree in a different way!!! Well hubby is still
, DW says stop calling me
. So this week-end we will be pulling the garland off the tree and putting it back on in the way DW wants it to be put on!
Yes Dear!!! So guys out there, if you want anything in life, or even if you want to eat the same things DW eats..............like for example all of the Thanksgiving dinner foods like turkey, mashed potatoes, gravy.........you know all the fixings. In stead of peanut butter & jelly on 5 day old bread that you pain sakingly try to shape into a turkey............you too will learn to say 

This is way too much pressure on usn' guys. We'll never remember all of those!!!! Come on..........take it ease on us pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease!!!! (PS I tried that second one, one time a ways back............DW says I should know from the start, "What she wants!!!" I can't win!!!!!


Are you ready to get into the Christmas spirit now? We got off our Magic cruise on Nov. 6th, and I'm still having trouble feeling like Christmas! But our tree is up, that helps a bit.