hazelandannie
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This is Hazel just so you know who's opinion this is lol.
I have been a professional childcarer for 17 years now working with pre school aged and below, also have done a lot of guidance in the styles of super nanny and nanny 911.
My observations are that parenting techniques have drastically changed over the years with it all becoming a little to child led in my opinion.
Its the simple things that have become neglected which creates a bigger picture of our youths having very little respect for anyone except their peers and themselves. Let me give a few examples.... Your talking to a friend and your child interupts, instead of saying "I'm talking sweetie wait a moment" you cut short your chat and focus on the child. Your baby wakes and you go right in instead of waiting a few minutes, your child wont eat dinner so you make something else.
The first point shows them respect, the second teaches patience and the third shows sometimes there isn't another option.
Kids are special yes! But so are you! So is your partner! And so is everyone else.
Parents need to turn back the clocks a little so our future generations learn to respect their elders, respect authority, respect society and respect themselves.
Teach them to earn a reward, that stamping feet and screaming doesnt get what you want and that PLEASE and THANKYOU cost you nothing but gets you a lot.
These trouble makers in the UK right now are showing no respect and if it's because they want jobs well a criminal record isn't going to help!
I hope I havnt offended anyone.
Hazel
I have been a professional childcarer for 17 years now working with pre school aged and below, also have done a lot of guidance in the styles of super nanny and nanny 911.
My observations are that parenting techniques have drastically changed over the years with it all becoming a little to child led in my opinion.
Its the simple things that have become neglected which creates a bigger picture of our youths having very little respect for anyone except their peers and themselves. Let me give a few examples.... Your talking to a friend and your child interupts, instead of saying "I'm talking sweetie wait a moment" you cut short your chat and focus on the child. Your baby wakes and you go right in instead of waiting a few minutes, your child wont eat dinner so you make something else.
The first point shows them respect, the second teaches patience and the third shows sometimes there isn't another option.
Kids are special yes! But so are you! So is your partner! And so is everyone else.
Parents need to turn back the clocks a little so our future generations learn to respect their elders, respect authority, respect society and respect themselves.
Teach them to earn a reward, that stamping feet and screaming doesnt get what you want and that PLEASE and THANKYOU cost you nothing but gets you a lot.
These trouble makers in the UK right now are showing no respect and if it's because they want jobs well a criminal record isn't going to help!
I hope I havnt offended anyone.
Hazel