HopperFan
"It's a bug-eat-bug world out there, princess."
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I will take people taking selfies over folks with big cameras, camera & a phone, video cameras plus the photopass person any day. They jump in, they laugh, they click and they are on their way moving that line so much faster.
Who cares if you wouldn't take one - hint: the younger you are the better you look it's those lines and double chins that show up in selfies that are unattractive
Story: My MIL has Alzheimers and she is at the bad end living in a nursing home. Last year even though she was bad and there was little conversation and it was mostly just sitting with her I showed her how to do a selfie. Darn if she didn't catch on and here we are a year later ..... if she sees my phone she reaches for it. I open the camera, spin the lens, hand it to her and she fumbles but she still manages a selfie with great concentration. Are they pretty - NO. Are they complimentary to her - NO. While she doesn't smile in them because she is concentrating so hard, she smiles after which is rare in itself. But when she is gone I will always have these photos of her doing one of the few things she actually initiates, she created and made her happy these last few years.
Let the kids take the pictures and enjoy ..... but without selfie sticks. And I have my kids send me all the cute ones so I can save them.
Who cares if you wouldn't take one - hint: the younger you are the better you look it's those lines and double chins that show up in selfies that are unattractive
Story: My MIL has Alzheimers and she is at the bad end living in a nursing home. Last year even though she was bad and there was little conversation and it was mostly just sitting with her I showed her how to do a selfie. Darn if she didn't catch on and here we are a year later ..... if she sees my phone she reaches for it. I open the camera, spin the lens, hand it to her and she fumbles but she still manages a selfie with great concentration. Are they pretty - NO. Are they complimentary to her - NO. While she doesn't smile in them because she is concentrating so hard, she smiles after which is rare in itself. But when she is gone I will always have these photos of her doing one of the few things she actually initiates, she created and made her happy these last few years.

Let the kids take the pictures and enjoy ..... but without selfie sticks. And I have my kids send me all the cute ones so I can save them.
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