I currently purchased a selfie stick, I have 3 small kids and I was looking at a couple pictures of the last couple of years and noticed that more than 80% of the time I wasn't in the picture because I am behind the camera. I was hoping the selfie stick would help with that. I didn't know until after I purchased it that it offended people so much. I don't use it on rides, I don't really want videos/pics on rides or during parades, but if the setting is right I would like the option to bring it out and get a quick photo with all of us in it.
I have read that you can ask people to take a picture of you, but some of us are shy. The idea of having to ask to ask strangers to take pictures of you all day gives me anxiety. Plus you dont know about the quality of the photo....what if they are in a hurry and the photo is blurry, you don't want to keep asking.
I have an SLR which is big and cumbersome sometimes, and annoying to lug around. A selfie stick is much more convinient, and I can upload my photos directly to my computer and delete them from my phone to save space, instead of dealing with SD cards. Plus this experience left me feeling terribly guilty a few months ago. We were at the Freeze The Night party and the kids were doing the stacking of the foam ice blocks. I was carrying my 19 month old and he kept pushing the buttons on the camera so I shifted onto my shoulder so it rested by my arm. I put my son down and watched for a minute or two and didn't think about the camera again until a small boy came runny by really fast and bumped right into me and hit his face right on my camera lens. My camera isn't one of those really huge ones, its a normal SLR with a stock lens, but still I knew that must have hurt. All I could do was apologize profusely while his mother examined him in front of me while giving me a total deathglare. I still feel bad about it now.