- Apr 8, 2015
Huh? How are they engaging in conflict? They have thus far agreed to everything asked of them, except now she is second guessing the dance. Can’t say I blame her for that. It is her son’s wedding too, after all. Should he get no say in anything? My comment about starting off with in-law conflict was referring to her son and his in-laws, not op’s relationship with them.I never said they did, I said they are engaging in conflict. I'm just bouncing off your comment, don't want to start off the marriage with in-laws with conflict then don't actively engage in it.
Like I said do you want to be right? Or not start the marriage off with conflict. Again a direct response to your comment of "Seems to me like a really bad situation, starting off a marriage with in-law conflicts from the get-go." because the solution IMO wouldn't be for the OP to continue the conflict that already exists as that would be quite hypocritical, no? If that makes it a different perspective I guess it makes it a different perspective.