Well said eeyore0062!
I think every one of us must make our own choice about the appropriateness of trips and plans. I well understand a school district (under pressure from its lawyers) cancelling a trip to a far off place like Greece, or a close place like New York City, but I think we as adults have the right and obligation to make that choice ourselves.
A long and perhaps boring story, but one that I think about every day right now . . .
In August of 2001 my wife, 16 year old DD, and I were in New York and one evening we went up to the observation deck of the Trade Centers. I'm deathly afraid of heights, but I went up to the outside exposed top, scurried around like a rabbit, looked as much as I could without losing it, then zipped down and out of there. My wife and DD thought this extremely amusing, but I told DD, "you never know when we 3 might have this chance again as a family, and I would never forgive myself if I didn't do it."
The funny thing is, that's the first thing she told me when I picked her up at school on September 11. Between the tears (Wellesley lost 5 people in airplanes), she told me she was so glad we had done this together, knowing we could never do it again.
I think taking foolish chances, is well, foolish. But I strongly believe, if you let those guys scare you out of living your lives, then they have won. Keep doing the things you love. Keep going to work. Keep hugging your children and loving your spouse. Life is such a gift. It's short enough as is, without living in fear for the few days we are given.
We had not originally planned a Christmas trip, but a week after September 11, we booked 6 days and 5 nights at WDW, the 3 of us. We came in on Christmas Day and had a wonderfull dinner at Narcossee's. Our DD walked back to the room, and my spouse and I floated around on the small boat, sitting by ourselves in the back, while the Captain took us to the Poly, the MK, and back to the GF. The entire week was wonderful, a time for 2 parents and a rapidly maturing girl to enjoy themselves as a family.
Were we taking a risk by leaving our house? Yes, but you take that risk every day you leave home. Was it a foolish risk? I don't think so, but even if something had happened we would have been together. Was it a vacation we 3 will always remember? Certainly. I realize it pales in comparison to the bravery our sons and daughters in Saudi, Kuwait, etc show every day, but as a middle aged male what I can do every day is go to class every day (I'm a College Professor, fortunate to work with the most wonderful young men and women you've ever seen) and give my best effort to my students, my College, my town, my family, and my beloved Country.
Bless you all. Make the choices you think appropriate. I realize we're all somewhere between scared and apprehensive, but we can come together and get through this rough patch.