I'm going to cheat and copy a previous post I wrote on saving money --if you want to see the entire thread, click on this link:
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=565653
The biggest thing we've done to save money is to stop shopping! We rarely browse at the mall, Target, etc. DH and I used to easily spend $100 at Target once every week or two (off topic: I love Target, and even my hate-to-shop DH loves Target!).
Instead, we go to yardsales where we can browse to our hearts' contents and spend a tenth or less of what we would spend if we let ourselves browse retail. And it satisfies my intense need to shop .
I also realized that everything I buy (especially clothes) follows the 80/20 rule: I wear 20% of my clothes 80% of the time. So I try to remind myself not to buy anything just because it's on sale--I need to LOVE something to buy it.
I also sell books on Ebay and
Amazon, and I have an account at a credit union where all my Amazon and Paypal money goes. It's a different bank than where we have our regular accounts, so not as tempting to dip into it.
I bring my lunch and one can of soda to work everyday rather than buy lunch.
We have a change jar that we rarely dip into (back when we were really broke and just barely paying our bills every month, the change jar is what got us started saving towards a down payment on our house--we saved $400 the 1st year).
Eating out and going out of town for a long weekend every month or so are our major forms of entertainment, so we indulge ourselves this way. Back when we didn't have much money, we only ate out once a month.
Finally, we each have a monthly allowance (what we call Mad Money). It's strictly for buying STUFF--clothes, CDs, etc. No matter how broke we've been, we always have Mad Money (even if it's just a tiny amount--when we were not working and were going to school full time, it was $20 each per month) that we can each spend every month.
Mad Money keeps us from feeling deprived, and keeps us from feeling we have to discuss EVERY expenditure with each other.
I should add that I have money taken out every pay period automatically that goes into a retirement account at work--every time I get a raise, the extra percentage goes into the retirement account. You don't miss what you never see in your paycheck